04/04/2026
In hypnotherapy I use something called an ecology check.
This means we take a step back and explore what your life will actually look like after the change, including both the benefits and the challenges, to make sure every part of you is on board.
Why this matters: Let's use alcohol as an example. If you are stopping drinking, there is often much more changing than the alcohol itself. Your social life will shift. Certain friendships will no longer fit. Your relationship may change. Your identity may change drastically. Even the way you spend your evenings, weekends, or cope with stress may need to change.
This is one reason resistance can show up. Part of you may want the change, while another part is unsure about everything that comes with it. In our work, we slow down and figure out where that incongruence is coming from so we can work with it, not against it.
There are many other examples of this. Big changes in health, relationships, work, confidence, body changes or habits will all affect other parts of your life in ways you may not have fully considered yet.
One thing you can do on your own is use what is called Cartesian coordinates. Ask yourself questions like: what will happen if I make this change, what will not happen if I make this change? This can help you notice anything that might be standing in your way or changes you have not yet considered.
If you are thinking about making a change and want support, reach out or book a consultation to see if this work is a good fit for you.
Shannon Shade, RCH
Registered & Accredited Clinical Hypnotherapist | Two-Time International Best-Selling Author
Helping people heal through subconscious transformation
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