04/08/2026
The story below is written by a nurse sharing their unfortunate experience with violence on the job.
Hi, I wanted to share a personal experience that left me feeling unsafe at work.
Back in 2017, I was caring for an acute care inpatient on a night shift. At the time, staffing was 1 RN and 1 LPN for 22 patients, and 1 RN in a 6-bed ER.
I entered the patient’s room to give his HS medication. He asked for a coffee, which I brought. We started talking, and he wanted to share a story. I was standing between his chair and his bed.
Mid-story, unprovoked, he threw the hot coffee at me, thankfully missing my face and hitting my chest. He then stood up and tried to push me onto the bed, reaching for my neck. He was an average-sized man in his 60s, but had pre-existing health issues that allowed me to fend him off and escape. Before I left, I noticed he had removed the pull cord from the blinds and placed it neatly on the bed.
I called for help, and my partner came. The patient then went into another room, seemingly confused. We called our lone security guard — also in his 60s — whose response was to say it must have been a mistake.
Meanwhile, the patient had called the RCMP, reporting an armed robbery. Officers arrived, spoke with him, and stayed until he could be chemically restrained. They told me I could press charges, which I didn’t feel comfortable doing without understanding why this had happened.
After speaking with his family, we learned he had done this once before - during a massive stroke. He was sent for a stat CT, and we never received follow-up.
As if the incident wasn’t traumatic enough, management only asked a brief “how are you,” with no guidance or support. Security made it clear they were there to protect the building, not staff.
Without follow-up, I was left wondering what went wrong?
Did I miss signs he was stroking?
Could I have done something differently?
Not knowing has been more stressful than the incident itself.
This is just one of many times the system, management, and security have left me and others feeling vulnerable and unsafe.
The public perception remains that nurses are the punching bags of healthcare, whether physical, verbal, sexual, or emotional.
And it needs to stop.