Dr. Tanja Haley

Dr. Tanja Haley Dr. Tanja Haley is a psychologist in private practice in Calgary, Alberta offering both individual and couples therapy.

Dr. Tanja Haley is a psychologist in private practice with over 20 years of experience working with both individuals and couples. She has extensive experience counselling clients in a variety of settings, as well as teaching and supervising students. Dr. Tanja is also one of a handful of Certified Gottman Couples Therapists in Alberta, and she is also certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy. She has a passion for helping people tackle whatever challenges they are struggling with, and working with them toward accomplishing their dreams.

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03/20/2025

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As a Certified Gottman Therapist (CGT) who has worked with high conflict couples for over 20 years, a fundamental skill I teach all couples is how to manage flooding. When you are flooded your body goes into ‘fight/flight/freeze’, and having a constructive conversation is impossible. Read on for some important tips!

If your arguments feel out of control, you need to step away and bring yourself back to a calm state. Brittini Carter, LMHC, shows you how.

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04/25/2024

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As many of you know, I am certified in both the Gottman Method and Dr. Sue Johnson’s EFT. I had the privilege of attending the Johnson Gottman Summit pictured below, and I also attended many of Sue’s trainings over the years. I was incredibly lucky to have met Sue, and she leaves an important legacy behind.

We are so sad to announce that Sue Johnson has died at the age of 76 from cancer.  She was … Continued

Bids for connection are small positive gestures that people make to get others to engage with them. In happy relationshi...
01/30/2024

Bids for connection are small positive gestures that people make to get others to engage with them. In happy relationships, partners make a lot of ‘bids for connection’ that are received well. But what happens when there is a pattern of partners rejecting each others’ bids? Read on for more information about what Gottman’s research says.

Learn why turning against your partner's bids is so harmful to the well being of your relationship as well as your individual health.

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Dr. Tanja Haley is a psychologist in private practice with over 17 years of experience working with both individuals and couples. She has extensive experience counselling clients in a variety of settings, as well as teaching and supervising students. Dr. Tanja is also one of a handful of Certified Gottman Couples Therapists in Alberta, and was the first to achieve that designation in the province. She recently became certified in Dr. Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy as well, and is one of two therapists in Canada Certified in both models. She has a passion for helping people tackle whatever challenges they are struggling with, and working with them toward accomplishing their dreams.