02/17/2026
Kids and teens donât struggle because they feel anxious â they struggle because they believe they canât handle uncertainty. In this episode of Overpowering Emotions, Dr. Caroline breaks down one of the most overlooked skills in anxiety treatment: learning how to sit with not knowing.
Drawing from real clinical moments, classroom realities, and everyday parenting struggles, this episode walks through how reassurance, predictability, and âjust checkingâ can quietly keep anxiety running the show. Youâll hear practical ways to help children stay in the moment even when outcomes feel scary â from separation anxiety and perfectionism to social worries and OCD.
After listening to this episode, lleave with concrete ideas that actually work: behavioural experiments, playful practice, language shifts, and debrief questions that build confidence without chasing calm. This is an episode about raising brave kids who can move forward even when nothing feels guaranteed.
Homework Ideas to Support Kids & Teens
Delay answers on purpose
Acknowledge questions without providing certainty. Use: âThatâs a good question â what do you think?â
Set short, clear uncertainty challenges
Stay in a room for five minutes without checking. Wait before asking. Leave a question unanswered.
Use playful unknowns
Mystery lunches, dice-decided choices, surprise plans, cliffhangers in stories or shows.
Practise language swaps
âI can handle not knowing yet.â
âI want to know, but I can wait.â
âThis feels hard, and Iâm okay.â
Debrief after every practice
Ask about effort, not outcomes. What helped? What was harder than expected? What surprised you?
Helpful resources:
Timer or visual countdown
Notebook or scrapbook for âI didnât know, and I handled itâ moments
Age-appropriate riddles or puzzles
List of values-based goals the child cares about