05/28/2026
“Good vibes only” is the one of most damaging thing the wellness world ever put on a tote bag.
It sounds nice. Supportive even. But say it to someone on their worst day and watch what actually happens. They smile. They nod. They swallow the whole thing back down and walk away feeling more alone than before they opened their mouth.
Because what you really just told them was:
not here. Not that. Bring me the version of you that’s already okay.
I’m not interested in that version of you.
I spent years learning to perform fine. Answer “good thanks!” while everything underneath was on fire. And the IG wellness scroll only made it worse, all those beige little reminders to choose joy while I white knuckled my way through a Tuesday.
The PAUSE was never about feeling good. You don’t sit down in stillness to top up your vibes. You sit down so the thing you’ve been outrunning all week finally gets to land. So you can feel it. All of it. And find out you’re still standing on the other side.
That’s the whole bloody point.
The Inner Peace Club is not a good vibes only club. Your bad days get a seat at this table too. The messy ones. The rage ones. The I-don’t-want-to-be-positive-right-now ones.
Come exactly as you are. Link’s up top. 🤎