Thresholds of Life

10/25/2025

10/25/2025

10/21/2025

I still speak to you, you know.

I still say, “good morning,” when I wake up and open the curtains. Sometimes I say it aloud and sometimes I whisper it to myself.
But I still say it.

I still say, “hey you,” when I walk past your chair or your photograph. Sometimes I say it with tears in my eyes and sometimes I have a smile on my face.
But I still say it.

I still say, “what should we have for dinner?” when I get home in the evening or when I open the fridge to see what food we have in. Sometimes I say it even though I know what I want to cook, and sometimes I’m hoping you’ll give me some inspiration.
Either way, I still say it.

I still say, “it’s our song!” when it plays on the radio.
I still say, “remember this?” when I find something I’d forgotten about.
I still say, “what do you think?” when I’m trying on an outfit.

I still say, “isn’t it a lovely day?” and “guess who I saw!” and “what shall we watch?” and “goodnight”
and “I miss you.”

And I still say, “I love you.”
Whenever I see your photo. Whenever it’s a lovely day.
Whenever I miss you.
Sometimes I say it aloud, sometimes in a whisper to myself; sometimes with tears in my eyes and sometimes with a smile on my face.

But always, either way,

I love you.

And I still say it.

*****

Becky Hemsley 2024
Stunning artwork by Jolene Lai

Someone asked me to share this poem this week - it's from my book of grief and loss poetry: I Missed You Quietly Today https://amzn.to/46Qxmdt
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10/14/2025

At Thanksgiving we are reminded of all that we are grateful for. Wonderful clients included!! Thank you Shawn and Alecia for your kind words.

“We wanted to take a moment to sincerely thank you for being such an important part of our wedding day. Your words, presence, and the way you guided the ceremony made it truly meaningful and memorable for us and our families.

The care and thoughtfulness you put into the ceremony reflected our relationship beautifully, and we couldn’t have imagined a better way to begin our marriage. We are so grateful for your support and for helping us create a moment we’ll cherish forever.” Shawn & Alecia

09/21/2025

Don't wait until death - give the flowers now. There is plenty of time for beautiful flowers during a home funeral, but don't let that be first flowers they receive.

We focus a lot on love continuing past death - but don't wait. Love now. ❤️

Art by Moga

08/28/2025

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08/25/2025

I really can’t love this one enough. What a beautiful description of how grief doesn’t have to lock you in.

💜HC

08/08/2025

2 night August 24-26. your choice of frozen or peach at check in with all dressed nachos.
Book direct at www.theoldmillmanor.com 🍾🎉. Direct fee free booking

Canvas awning installed by House of Canvas

Landscaping patio by BML Brian Metcalfe Landscaping

🥳 .almonte

08/06/2025

Thank you Sarah & Tristan for your generous words!

“"We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant than Patti! From the very beginning, she was warm, kind, and incredibly easy to work with. She took the time to get to know us and made us feel at ease throughout the entire planning process. On our wedding day, Patti delivered a personal, warm, and heartfelt ceremony that perfectly reflected who we are as a couple. Her presence, words, and care truly made our wedding day such a great day. We’re so grateful for the role she played in making our wedding so special." Sarah & Tristan

08/06/2025

What a delightful thank you from Sam and Alex!!

07/20/2025

03/24/2025

The Ecotay Farmhouse will soon be ready to welcome guests! Opening mid May—just in time for wedding season. Stay tuned for more sneak peeks!