12/29/2023
Have you found yourself approaching the new year with dread, worried that you’ll start something only to give up on it after a month?
New year’s resolutions are all well and good, but if you want to build a new habit, you have to come from a strong foundation. You won’t succeed getting up earlier if you can’t address or find out how to change why you’re exhausted.
This year, can you give yourself permission to look at yourself from the ground up? To not look at yourself as a machine, plugging in inputs and cutting off or numbing places of pain, but as an integrated whole of mind, body, heart, and soul? And from there, ask yourself: what needs to be tended to?
When I first started doing ABM, I thought it was a “body thing”. And while movement is the language, it is only an intelligible language because it is a part of the whole functioning of the human person. In my life, ABM has changed not only my body, but how I think, and this in turn has been radiating out into my emotional life. It’s helped me become more integrated; to look at myself not as a machine that needs fixing, but as a garden that needs cultivating.
ABM is now an indispensable part of my life, in large part because it is a concrete thing that I can do to help me have a healthy relationship with myself. And if you haven’t experienced ABM, that might sound like too much to expect, or a strange thing to expect from a modality based in movement. But because the method is built on safety, on meeting you where you are, and helping you feel what it is that you are already doing, I think it is one of the best tools to help you change for the better how you relate to yourself.
So if there’s something you’ve been living with, even if it’s been for a long time, like pain from an old injury, or chronic fatigue or lack or energy, why not try ABM this year? And if you’re not sure it’s for you, or how it works, because here I’ve given more of a personal reflection than a scientific overview, send me a message—I’m always happy to provide more information and answer any questions.
My prayers for you for a peaceful new year.