02/04/2024
It can be confusing when you finally have it “together” - a good job, financial security, hobbies that you enjoy, and healthy, reciprocal relationships, then trauma rears its head once more. No, this does not confirm that “people like me just don’t get to be happy”. Quite the opposite, in fact.
Trauma response does not know the clock or the calendar, so it can pop in when you least expect it. Sudden reemergence of old traumatic memories, physical sensations, panic response, and grief can actually be an indicator that your system is finally ready to heal on a deeper level. For proper trauma processing to happen, you need safety, security, and stability in your life, not only in the perceived sense but on a cellular level.
So no, this does not make you crazy, it makes you ready. You are now strong enough to let yourself be vulnerable. There is readiness for change, healing, and letting go of the stories that no longer serve you. If this speaks to you, please reach out, book a consultation, and lets shed some of the old to make way for the new.