Marriage Works

07/17/2018

Rev Raymond marries the happy couple in June, 2018, at Harrison Hot Springs Resort. The couple had a sacred wedding with lots of joy, love and laughter. This is one of the most beautiful places to get married!!!

02/21/2018

Spring is coming and it is a time of love and weddings. If you are planning a wedding or know someone who is getting married, check out our website and call Rev. Raymond for a free consultation at 1-604-769-3337. Blenda's book, LOVE SECRETS, Falling in Love & Staying in Love is selling like crazy. You can buy it at Amazon.comandAmazon.ca. People are finding it very helpful, buying it for their friends, and setting up private coaching sessions. So, check it out!!!!

01/23/2018

Premarital counseling helps partners improve their ability to communicate, set realistic expectations for marriage and develop conflict-resolution skills.

Premarital counseling — Overview covers definition, benefits and what to expect from counseling before marriage.

12/05/2017

LOVE SECRETS: Falling in Love & Staying in Love

This potentially award winning book is endorsed by Dr. John Gray, author of the best selling relationship book, Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, as a practical and compassionate guide for creating healthy relationships and lasting intimacy. It contains a series of easy exercises, wisdom from having successfully coached over 6,500 clients, and a special chapter on Dr. John Gray's Love Letter and Blenda's Love Encounter.

If you are looking for a way to attract a partner for a loving, lasting relationship, or if you want to put new life into your existing relationship, then this book is for you. It will reveal secrets showing you how to get what your want and how to build a loving relationship that will last a lifetime.

As part of your LOVE SECRETS

You will:

Identify what you want, what you have to offer, and your goals
Learn strategies to attract what you want
Unlock secrets to revive and keep your relationship exciting and fulfilling
debunk harmful relationship and sexual myths
Build relationship worthiness and integrate over 100 healthy intimacy affirmations into your core beliefs
Learn proven love communication techniques that transform conflict into passion
enjoy replacing old beliefs with New Thought Patterns
What makes LOVE SECRETS so wonderful is that it is different from other relationship books. In a series of easy exercises, it guides you all the way from how to know what you want in a lasting relationship to attracting and keeping that ideal relationship vibrant. The love secrets are equally helpful to those people seeking their ideal relationship as they are to those people who want to transform their relationship into one filled with passion, joy, and heart-felt purpose.

Too often couples meet and their passion is so high they seem to fall hopelessly in love. Struck by Cupid's arrows, they get married and after a short while feel like they have fallen off a cliff into a bottomless pit. Both the men and women feel a loss of freedom and a sense of hopelessness from which they can not escape. It is with this in mind that the author, Blenda Pilon, has written Love Secrets. Blenda's purpose is to provide easy tools for Falling in Love and Staying in Love. Having been in private practice for 17 years, Blenda says, “Love is the most powerful and wonderful expression of Life, of Spirit. It is our gift to be able to give and receive the power of Love, the most powerful force in the universe – and you can use it!”

LOVE SECRETS New Thought Handbook

Replace Old Beliefs with New Thought Patterns

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Relationships

This handy LOVE SECRETS New Thought Handbook can become your best relationship buddy. When you find you aren't getting what you want in your relationship, you can open your handbook, quickly identify the old belief that is the culprit, and immediately replace it with a New Thought Pattern that is provided for you.

You can think of your handbook as your mini relationship tool kit. When you are up against a relationship barrier, with this tool kit you can be the master of your wonderful journey in human form. By simply changing your thoughts, you can change what happens to you in your relationships. Your thoughts are the real cause. Thoughts cluster and form habits. Because this is true, by changing your thoughts/habits you can change to New Thought Patterns attracting to you what you desire.

Maybe you are familiar with Louise Hay who wrote heal your body, THE MENTAL CAUSES FOR PHYSICAL ILLNESS AND THE METAPHYSICAL WAY TO OVERCOME THEM. Blenda Pilon, the author, found this book so valuable that she decided to follow the example of Louise Hay and provide the same handy way for people to overcome relationship barriers replacing them with New Thought Habits. As Blenda says, “With New Thought Habits that work, you can achieve a Marriage-that-Works forever; or if you prefer, a wonderful relationship that works for as long as you desire. There is nothing more precious than being in a loving relationship in which you are fulfilled and happy. That is why this handbook is your buddy and an essential component of your relationship tool kit.”

09/19/2017

Couples therapy is a great way for engaged couples to discuss major issues in their relationship before saying “I do” for a lifetime.

By Laura Seldon for GalTime.com

09/11/2017

As the male provider, the need to please your wife can quickly become an addiction. It is an insidious addiction because you mask over and forget your personal success dreams in your constant striving to please your partner. The longer you continue your addiction, the higher the probability that your partner will start treating you like a slave, like an extension of herself.

Submitted by Rev Raymond on Fri, 06/30/2017 - 11:30 One of the most insidious, cherished beliefs born in the land of Male Matriarchal Myths is “When you get married you will lose your freedom for ever-after.” As a man, it is easy to buy into this cultural bias as the Shining Knight in Armour charm...

09/07/2017

"Stay-in-love couples are authentic, open, and self-reliant, but they also urgently need one another at times. They trust that the other will never take advantage of that immediate availability, and that when an urgent S.O.S. call goes out, their partner will rapidly respond without question or challenge."

6. Always respond to your partner's urgency.

09/04/2017

It is important to ask for what you want with clarity and preciseness. Make a firm choice about Who You Are and what you want.

Submitted by Blenda on Thu, 05/18/2017 - 13:59 One of the most insidious, cherished beliefs born in the land of Fairy Dreams is “When you get married you will live happily ever-after.” As a woman, it is easy to buy into this Fairy Dream as our Knight in Shining Armour charms us. Oh! How easy it is...

08/31/2017

Set aside a time to make up your list of reasons for wanting to get married and compare them with the two lists. Would you feel comfortable doing premarital counseling to make certain this is the right choice?

Too many people have the wrong motivations to get married. What are the right and reasons?

08/28/2017

Blenda Pilon, MSc. is delighted to offer her expertise as your Pre-Marital and Marital Coach.

Choosing a Loving, Lasting Relationship My name is Blenda Pilon, Msc, Bsc. Having successfully seen over 6,500 clients and enjoying an intimate relationship with my husband for 24 years, I am delighted to offer you my expertise as your Pre-Marital and Marital Coach. Pre-Marital and Marital Coaching…

08/24/2017

Where do you want to get married?

On top of a glacier. Next to a volcano. Or with man-eating animals. You won't believe these creative places couples have chosen to have a wedding.

08/21/2017

The officiant is the facilitator of the most important aspect of your wedding—the ceremony—and you will share an intimate moment in time.

To create the right kind of wedding you have to select the right officiant--or officiants--but you need to have a clear understanding about what to expec...