Paige Burles Psychology

03/14/2026

Are you looking for counselling support for your child, teen, or yourself?

Karissa Proctor (Canadian Certified Counsellor) is currently accepting new clients through my practice.

Karissa works with children (8+), teens, and adults, and before becoming a counsellor she worked as a teacher, which gives her great insight into the challenges many kids and teens experience.

Karissa offers a warm, collaborative, and supportive approach and currently has openings available.

She supports clients with concerns such as:
• Anxiety
• Depression
• ADHD
• Emotional regulation
• Stress
• Life transitions
• Relationship challenges

Learn more here: www.paigeburles.com/karissa

Feel free to message if you have questions about whether it might be a good fit.

09/29/2022

This is a question that I am often asked. Practicing dialectical thinking helps us from getting caught in the all-or-nothing or black-and-white thinking. This allows us to respond more effectively to situations that we encounter and improve the way we feel and function in our lives. The world is full of dialectics; once you start looking you will see them everywhere! Comment below with other dialectical statements that are impactful in your life.

09/20/2022

Part 2 - Validation Series

Understanding invalidation is an essential part in building mastery in the skill of validation. As a rule of thumb invalidation causes emotions to get spikier and can push us more into our emotion mind.

Most of the time invalidation is completely unintentional; remember, if someone feels invalidated by you or you feel invalidated by someone it likely wasn’t intentional.

We cannot expect to be validated by others because it is a learned skill, this is why learning how to use validation (both with others and for ourselves) is so important.

Paige Burles | Psychologist shared a post on Instagram: "Part 2 - Validation Series Understanding invalidation is an essential part in building mastery in the skill of validation. As a rule of thumb invalidation causes emotions to get spikier and can push us more into our emotion mind. Most of the t...

09/17/2022

How we talk to ourselves and to others impacts how we feel and the way we perceive our world. Our choice of language carries meaning—for example, the word “should” carries with it a message/feeling of shame. We can change this by making some simple, yet powerful replacements to some of the words we commonly use.

Comment below with other reframes that have made a difference in your life!

09/10/2022

The benefits of validation extend beyond the parent child relationship. Follow along as .b.psych and I continue our series on validation.

Here’s the list again:
1. Facilitates emotional regulation (by helping your child identify and make sense of their emotions).
2. Encourages a powerful bond between you and your child.
3. Facilitates effective problem solving by first aligning with your child.
4. Improves your child’s ability to communicate their feelings.
5. Communicates to your child that you understand them and that their feelings make sense.
6. Calms anger and other intense emotions.
7. Comforts your child and supports them in continuing to work towards a goal even when it’s hard.

09/10/2022

Check out part 1 of our series on validation. Such an important and powerful tool! Much more to come on this 🙂 stay tuned.

Paige Burles | Psychologist shared a post on Instagram: "Validation is an essential tool in communication. We need validation, both from others and from ourselves. It helps our brain soften emotions so we are able to respond to them more effectively. In interpersonal communication it is a tool that....

08/30/2022

Anxiety problems in children can be treated. Some symptoms may be more difficult to notice, such as being quiet, compliant and eager to please. Although all children will experience some anxiety, we want to be aware of the signs of severe anxiety so that we can intervene early and prevent future difficulties.





Source: American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry

08/25/2022

A key component of emotion regulation is being able to first identify emotions. This is an important skill that I help parents and children develop and strengthen in therapy. Knowing what emotion we are experiencing allows us to then make a decision about how we are going to respond to the emotion. Follow me for more tips on helping children recognize, understand, and regulate their emotions!

Paige Burles | Psychologist shared a post on Instagram: "A key component of emotion regulation is being able to first identify emotions. This is an important skill that I help parents and children develop and strengthen in therapy. Knowing what emotion we are experiencing allows us to then make a de...

08/23/2022

Going back to school can be a challenge and having mental health support in place before these difficulties arise can make a big difference for kids! I’ve just opened up my schedule to include Saturdays, as I understand that daytime appointments may be difficult to accommodate and evening spots can fill up quickly. For this reason, I’ve reserved Saturdays only for children/teens!

If you or someone you know is looking for some support for yourself or your little one I’m here to help. I specialize in working with children ages 4-13 (I also work with older children and adults). Connect with me through the link below if you are interested in getting more info or booking a consult or session. I have both virtual and in person options, however for younger children I require sessions to be in person!

https://maliya.janeapp.com/locations/wellness-clinic-booking/book #/staff_member/68

08/04/2022

I love this theory. Such a helpful way to practice self-validation & self-compassion when we are not accomplishing what we think we “should” be able to get done.

Find out more about the Spoon Theory