11/22/2025
Have you noticed how often people apologize for weeping? Or how, angrily brushing their tears away, they'll say something like, "Geez. I'm such a GIRL. I'm crying like a little b****!" Male-identifying. Female-identifying. Both are quick to judge their own vulnerability. How do you feel about yourself when your emotions go big and your thoughts get stormy? Do you experience tears as weakness? Some of the time, the language of the body-heart-mind-soul is tears. We begin from openness: you are as you are for reasons that are good enough for you. We begin with the understanding that beneath every big feeling-struggle-joy-celebration-fear-rage-etc. there is a need. A longing. And longings can be reeeeeally uncomfortable -- maybe more uncomfortable than the big feeling that is masking them. Our response to that discomfort? We align with compassion (which, at its heart, means "to suffer together") and non-judgment. Could it be time to get curious about what your one wild life might be saying through whatever vulnerability has arrived?