03/20/2026
This isn’t talk therapy.
This is about understanding what’s driving your reactions and learning how to shift those patterns at the unconscious level.
If you’ve worked with me before, you already know this isn’t traditional counselling.
And if you haven’t, here’s what’s different.
We always start with communication.
Not just “talk it out” communication, but real tools you can use in the moment when things are getting heated, when you feel triggered, or when you’re about to shut down or walk away.
How to communicate without it turning into a fight.
How to set boundaries.
How to actually hear each other.
But that’s just the beginning.
Because what’s really driving your relationship isn’t just what you’re saying…
It’s your unconscious patterns.
The part of your mind that’s running your reactions based on your past.
The part that kicks in when you feel unheard.
Or disrespected.
Or not important.
That’s when the tone changes.
That’s when you react.
That’s when one of you shuts down and the other pushes harder.
And then you both walk away feeling disconnected.
Nothing gets resolved.
And the same pattern repeats.
This is the work I do.
I help you identify those patterns, your triggers, your knee-jerk reactions…
And we shift them at the unconscious level.
So you’re not just “trying harder” in your relationship
You’re actually showing up differently.
I do this work with couples who are:
• stuck in conflict
• working through infidelity
• trying to decide whether to stay or go
And I also work with individuals.
Because sometimes your partner isn’t ready, or you just know it’s time to do your own work.
I work with people who:
• keep ending up in the same kind of relationships
• struggle to settle or commit
• feel anxious or overwhelmed in relationships
• pull away, shut down, or sabotage something good
Most clients work with me over a structured process:
• Couples: typically 10 - 14 sessions
• Individuals: typically 8 - 10 sessions
If any of this feels familiar, you’re not alone.
And more importantly, you’re not stuck.
This work changes things.
If you’re ready, reach out or book a consultation.
www.joannacox.ca