Dynamic Journey, End of Life Practitioner

01/09/2026

Thank you for this Katie Costello - Soul Midwife and Funeral Celebrant

This is a huge conversation, and one many of us struggle with. There’s this deep-rooted belief that because the work is caring, emotional, spiritual, and around death, it somehow should be free.

So let me say this clearly - it is absolutely okay for soul midwives (and death doulas) to charge for their work.

Most of us have:
• Paid thousands (sometimes tens of thousands) for professional training and qualifications
• Invested years in additional learning, diplomas, skills, and lived experience
• Done deep personal, emotional, and spiritual work to be able to sit with others in their hardest moments
• Spent years building experience across different professional roles

That alone justifies charging.

Some Soul midwives choose to offer voluntary support and that work is deeply valued. Some of us charge and that is completely valid. Both can exist.

If you do charge, there are lots of ways to do it:
• A set number of free or low-cost hours, then paid support beyond that
• Hourly or per-service fees
• Pay-it-forward or donation-based models
• Tiered services depending on depth, time, and complexity and skill.

And something important to understand from the inside…

What might look like 2 hours of support often involves:
• Emotional, mental, and spiritual preparation beforehand
• Holding intense space during
• Decompression, reflection, and processing afterwards

In reality, that 2 hours can easily be 6–8 hours of work so realistically, a full days work.

We are much like counselling, therapy, Reiki, yoga, acupuncture, reflexology that folks pay for, alongside health/medical care. We are extra. Additional. I’d say necessary even.

I would love to see a future where Soul midwives are routinely employed in hospitals, hospices, care homes, and agencies. Some places are moving that way, which is hopeful. But for now, most of us are self-employed.

This is not about profiting from vulnerability or grief as some perceive it.

This is about recognising:
✨ skill and training
✨ deep care and compassion
✨ priceless experience
✨ emotional labour
✨ professional value
✨ IMPACT

Soul midwives/death doulas are professionals. Our work is valuable. Charging for it is not wrong.

01/09/2026

✨ Sacred Legacy Session with Pat and the ever so talented Arleta - Yellow Petal Photo

✨What is your legacy?

To laugh in the sun, is a gift.
To do it with others, is a miracle.

Coming together for the Sacred Legacy sessions with and Pat Sloan was a highlight in my career on 12/20/25and I plan on continuing this end of life remembrance celebration with others in 2026.

If you know of any elders who are wanting to document their end of life experience, on their terms, send me a message and we can get the journey started.

01/07/2026

There’s something truly special about coming together in a space filled with open hearts and shared stories.

🫖The 1st Tea with a Death Doula at the Courtenay Library was not just an event; it was a beautiful celebration of life, love, and the profound journeys we all experience.

As chairs were pulled together and the Earl Grey tea was poured, an incredible array of humans arrived, each bringing their own unique narratives and insights. The warmth in the room was palpable, as people shared their stories of joy and loss, hope and grief, weaving connections that transcended the ordinary.

It was an honour to witness the courage of those who opened up, revealing their vulnerabilities while celebrating the strength that comes from community. This gathering reminded us that while death may be a difficult topic, it is also a part of our shared humanity, deserving of compassion and understanding.

In this sacred space, we embraced the complexity of life’s most profound moments and the beauty that arises when we come together. The stories exchanged were not just inspiring; they were a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

We left feeling uplifted, connected, and filled with a renewed sense of purpose. Here’s to more gatherings where empathy reigns, and passion for living fully can flourish!

Thank you for sharing your stories with us! See you next time. ✨

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01/05/2026

Proud to renew my membership with

01/05/2026

Starting this week! ✨ Meet the instructor is this Thursday, Jan 8th at 6:30pm at the Comox Rec Centre. I will be present to introduce myself and answer all your questions.

If you are drawn to this calling as a personal passion or a professional pursuit, End of Life Doula 101 promises to be a transformative start to your journey that will equip you with the tools to make a profound difference in the lives of others during their most vulnerable moments.

✨It’s deep! It’s intense!! It is real life and death experiences to help you help others.

The course will explore a wide range of topics essential to death care, including effective communication techniques, creating meaningful rituals, legacies, navigating the complexities of grief, and fostering a peaceful and dignified end-of-life experience. Through a combination of in person instruction and interactive discussions, attendees will cultivate the skills, knowledge, and empathy necessary to serve as a beacon of comfort and understanding during life’s final chapter.

✨Please note: this is not a “certification” course, as there is not a regulatory body for end of life doulas. You will receive a Validation of Completion.

Course starts Jan 13th.
Register through Comox Community Recreation Centre

12/31/2025

Happy New Year from Dynamic Journey!

As we step into 2026, we warmly wish you a year filled with love, connection, and hope. We’re Janet and Izy, and as both the last responder and the first responder in life’s journey, our hearts are full of gratitude for the precious moments shared with all of you.

This past year, we’ve witnessed the power of compassion and kindness in our community work. Every experience, every story, and every connection we’ve made has reinforced our commitment to providing support during life’s most meaningful transitions.

As we enter this new year, we invite you to embrace the possibilities ahead. May you find joy in every moment, comfort in the connections you cherish, and strength in the love that surrounds you.

From our family to yours, we wish you a beautiful and hopeful 2026. Let’s continue to cultivate kindness and understanding together, making every journey a little brighter.

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12/31/2025

Let’s be real - chatting about death can feel a bit heavy, but how about we make it a delightful experience over some warm tea? ☕️

🫖 Join me for an engaging and thought-provoking gathering on TUESDAY, January 6th, at 10:00 AM at the Vancouver Regional Comox Library
🆕 🎉AND then the COURTENAY LIBRARY, at 2pm

We’ll create a cozy vibe where we can sip tea, share great conversations, and dive into some of life’s biggest questions together.
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We’re all traveling on this journey called life, so let’s swap insights and thoughts! Talking about death can actually lead us to live more fully. I can’t wait to share a cup with you!

🗓️ Don’t forget, Tea with a Death Doula happens every 1st Tuesday of the month at 10am in Comox AND then at 2pm in Courtenay!
VI Regional Library Comox
VI Regional Library Courtenay

Everyone is welcome to join in on this fun and free event! Share with your friends and family!

12/28/2025

🙏🏻✨I would like to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to all of you—my clients, families, colleagues, and organizations—who have supported Dynamic Journey throughout its mission to provide compassionate end-of-life care.

Your trust and encouragement have made all the difference, and I am deeply thankful for the relationships we’ve formed. Each experience with you has enriched my journey, and I look forward to continuing to serve you with dedication and care.

Thank you for being such an essential part of this journey!

Remember ~ Be Good to You ✨

Big things are coming for 2026!

12/21/2025

12/21/2025

☀️Reflecting on a powerful day with Arleta from as we embarked on a Legacy Project for our beloved client, Patricia. Together, we supported and captured stunning moments at the beach, where Patricia wrapped herself in her cherished blanket from Nepal. Each image tells a story of strength, beauty, and love. I feel honoured to help create these lasting memories that will be treasured forever. 🕊️

✨There will be more from and Pat’s End of Life Legacy Journey ✨

12/21/2025

12/20/2025

✨Here are some gentle ways to honour your feelings while finding light in the day:

✨Create a Tribute: Set up a special place in your home with photos, candles, or mementos that celebrate the life of your loved one.

✨Share Stories: Talk about them with family and friends. Sharing happy memories can bring warmth to your heart.

✨Embrace Comfort: Allow yourself to experience joy and relaxation. Watch your favorite holiday movies or bake their favorite treats.

✨Give Back: Find a way to spread kindness in their memory, whether it’s volunteering, donating, or helping someone in need.

✨Practice Self-Care: Take time for yourself. Whether it’s a quiet walk, journaling, or a warm bath, take moments that nurture your spirit.

✨🪽Remember, grief has no timeline, and taking care of yourself is a vital part of the healing process. You’re not alone; reach out to those who care about you.

Wishing you peace and comfort this holiday season. 💖

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