10/31/2025
What is Therapeutic Fibbing?
Therapeutic fibbing is a technique used by caregivers when dealing with loved ones with dementia. It involves telling a white lie or bending the truth in order to avoid causing distress or confusion to the individual with dementia. While some may view this as dishonest, experts in the field of dementia care believe that therapeutic fibbing can be a valuable tool in maintaining the emotional well-being of those with cognitive impairments.
When a person with dementia asks a question or makes a statement that is based on a false reality or memory, it can be tempting to correct them or try to bring them back to the present. However, this can often lead to frustration and agitation for the individual, as they may not be able to understand or accept the truth. In these situations, therapeutic fibbing can be a way to validate the person's feelings and maintain their sense of dignity.
For example, if a loved one with dementia asks about a deceased family member who they believe is still alive, a caregiver may choose to gently redirect the conversation or provide a simple explanation that avoids causing distress. By using therapeutic fibbing, caregivers can help their loved ones feel safe and supported, even in moments of confusion. In contrast when we tell them a loved one died even years before it can be like they heard it for the first time and be very upsetting and they grieve all over again every time they are "reminded" that a loved one passed. The kinder thing to do is not mention it or redirect to a new topic.
Experts recommend using therapeutic fibbing in a compassionate and respectful manner, always keeping the individual's emotional well-being at the forefront. It is important to approach each situation with empathy and understanding, recognizing that the goal is to provide comfort and reassurance to the person with dementia.
At Just Like Family Home Care, we understand the challenges of caring for a loved one with dementia. Our caregivers are trained to use techniques such as therapeutic fibbing to ensure the comfort and well-being of our clients. By employing this approach, we can create a supportive and nurturing environment for individuals with dementia, allowing them to maintain their dignity and sense of self.