01/17/2025
At 41, I’ve unlocked the greatest truth in life:
happiness begins with protecting your mental health. It’s taken me decades of pain, growth, and perseverance to realize that nothing else matters,not betrayal, rumors, envy, or societal expectations. Every storm I’ve faced has shaped the person I am today.
I’ve faced betrayal from those I once called BEST friends and endured hurtful rumors from relatives. My unique Character and personality, instead of being a blessing, sparked jealousy that fueled negativity . Despite it all, I stayed focused on my success, refusing to let envy ,JEALOUSY or judgment derail me.
When life tested me with marriages that didn’t nurture my happiness, I made the courageous choice to walk away,not once, but twice,because my mental health and my children’s happiness were worth more than any tradition or expectation. I stood strong against cultural norms, proving that strength is found in choosing authenticity over conformity.
All the challenges and decisions I made weren’t easy for my kids, but I always reminded them they’d appreciate it one day. Now that they’re older, they understand and even encourage me, seeing the strength it took to choose happiness and protect my mental health. Their support is proof that prioritizing our well-being wasn’t just the right choice for me, it was the right choice for them too.
Now, I stand tall, unshaken by the past, determined to influence the next generation by leading with resilience and wisdom. My life is a testament to the power of self love, the necessity of boundaries, and the unwavering belief that happiness is worth fighting for.
To anyone reading this: Be strong. Be unafraid to break the rules that don’t serve you. Protect your peace and chase your joy,because you deserve to be happy !!!
