 
                                                                                                    10/17/2025
                                            I forgot to add another one I hear often: “Oh, my husband wouldn’t let me do that…”👀 
As a home birth mama, the amount of interrogation I got for choosing a homebirth was WILD.
But here’s the thing — most of those questions weren’t really about me. 
They were people projecting their OWN fears and conditioning.
We’ve been so trained to trust the status quo that anything outside of it feels threatening — so others try to pull you back into their comfort zone.
Flipping the script shows just how absurd it sounds when those same questions get directed the other way.
✨ So if you’re preparing for a homebirth, remember this:
Those aren’t your fears. They’re projections.
It takes work to hold your ground and not absorb other people’s programming — but that inner work is part of birth preparation too.
You’re not irresponsible. You’re deconditioning. 💪❤️
DM to prepare with me using The Cradle Method. 
                                                     
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  