BMS Thunderbird Lifestyle Consulting, Ltd.

08/27/2025

Calm assertiveness is not aggression.

When principled voices are mischaracterized as “combative,” it’s often a projection—an attempt to silence truth and shift blame.

These distortions don’t reflect who we are. They reflect the discomfort of those unwilling to face accountability.

We deserve protection, not punishment. Justice, not erasure.

08/27/2025

From rupture to resonance.
A layered map of trauma, adaptation, and mastery—how a psychotherapist built a praxis beyond talk.
Light. Sound. Ground. The elements are the angle.

www.grovescare.com

08/27/2025

Meet the developmental trajectory of a psychotherapist whose praxis transcends talk.

Structured by psychometric insight, kinesthetic intelligence, and multidisciplinary integration, this path organizes around trauma, pain, and performance.

Light. Sound. Ground.

The elements are the angle!

This is not just theory—it’s lived application.

A reorganization of what didn’t work, what was made to work, and what now works for those like me.

Meet the developmental trajectory of a psychotherapist whose praxis transcends talk. Action to uncover potential! Explore our digital doorway - www.grovescare.com Wounds to wisdom - experiences that get mistaken as wizardry. Subtle energy! Structured by psychometric insight, kinesthetic intelligence...

08/19/2025

Ethics 101

🚨 Trauma-Informed ≠ Trauma-Insensitive 🚨 As a trauma expert, professionally and personally, I am deeply concerned by the outdated and damaging practices still being used by some who claim to be “trauma-informed.” 🔁 Looping is not manipulation. It is a neurobiological response. When tr...

08/12/2025

Vintage Acapulco

08/11/2025

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Comfort is rarely the 'better therapy' measure—functioning is. The most valuable phases of therapy are often the most uncomfortable, because that’s when functioning, enlightened self-awareness, and tolerance for that awareness start to grow (Wampold, 2010; McWilliams, 2011). If therapy becomes o...

08/07/2025

On Turning 61

I am 61 at 7:06 a.m.
Not broken, but rebuilt.
Not retired, but rewired.
Still tethered to truth,
still gathering thread
from decades of unraveling
what others refused to see.

I embrace affirmation, ignore animosity.
Knowing my worth to the system.
The evidence is in
every life I lifted,
every soul I sat beside,
every wound I carried
until it closed.
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Take what serves. Leave the rest.

08/04/2025

Investing in community mental health adds value to work and workplace civility.