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Brenda Sedgwick
11/19/2025

Brenda Sedgwick

One Call. One Clue. One Systemic Problem.

I made 10 calls across three jurisdictions in two provinces.
Nine were excellent—polite, responsive, and grounded in real listening.

One was not.

And that single failure came from the exact jurisdiction where a medically fragile patient has repeatedly experienced distortion, dismissal, and delayed care.

This isn’t coincidence.
It’s confirmation.

When reception and complaint pathways both break down, senior decision-makers never hear the truth—and patient safety suffers.

Most people can’t afford litigation.
So the fix has to come from regulatory colleges, training programs, and mandated communication standards that prevent distortion and ensure complaints actually get through.

If 9 of 10 calls show the system can work,
the 1 in 10 tells us exactly where it doesn’t.

One Call. One Clue. One Systemic Problem.I made 10 calls across three jurisdictions in two provinces.Nine were excellent...
11/19/2025

One Call. One Clue. One Systemic Problem.

I made 10 calls across three jurisdictions in two provinces.
Nine were excellent—polite, responsive, and grounded in real listening.

One was not.

And that single failure came from the exact jurisdiction where a medically fragile patient has repeatedly experienced distortion, dismissal, and delayed care.

This isn’t coincidence.
It’s confirmation.

When reception and complaint pathways both break down, senior decision-makers never hear the truth—and patient safety suffers.

Most people can’t afford litigation.
So the fix has to come from regulatory colleges, training programs, and mandated communication standards that prevent distortion and ensure complaints actually get through.

If 9 of 10 calls show the system can work,
the 1 in 10 tells us exactly where it doesn’t.

Myths about Allergic Reactions that Must EndUndisclosed allergens are a global safety issue. Severe allergies are not pr...
11/15/2025

Myths about Allergic Reactions that Must End

Undisclosed allergens are a global safety issue. Severe allergies are not preferences, annoyances, or anxieties — they are medical realities that can turn a normal day into a medical emergency without warning.

Yet many misunderstand the medical facts about anaphylaxis.
And these myths genuinely put lives at risk.

Here are some of the most harmful misconceptions people still repeat:

Myth 1 — “People with anaphylaxis always clutch their throat.”
They don’t. Many lose their voice, become faint, collapse, or experience internal swelling without any dramatic gesture at all.

Myth 2 — “Anaphylaxis always happens instantly.”
Not true. Some reactions are delayed, build over hours, or return in rebound waves days later.

Myth 3 — “Antihistamines prevent anaphylaxis.”
They don’t. They may help hives — but they cannot stop a life-threatening systemic reaction.

Myth 4 — “Benadryl cures anaphylaxis.”
It does not. Epinephrine is the only lifesaving first-line treatment.

Myth 5 — “Allergies are actually anxiety.”
A very harmful stereotype. The biology of anaphylaxis is real, measurable, and dangerous.

Myth 6 — “People with allergies just want to control where everyone eats.”
No one chooses a life-threatening vulnerability for convenience. Asking for safety isn’t manipulation.

Myth 7 — “It’s easier to leave allergic people out of meals and events.”
Exclusion isn’t risk management. It’s discrimination.

Myth 8 — “If someone doesn’t collapse, it wasn’t anaphylaxis.”
Wrong. Many reactions look deceptively “stable” while dangerous internal processes continue.

Myth 9 — “Anaphylaxis resolves quickly and leaves no lasting symptoms.”
Post-anaphylaxis syndromes can last days or weeks. Recovery takes time.

Myth 10 — “Doctors know everything about allergies now.”
Medicine is still learning — especially regarding complex or recurrent reactions.

Myth 11 — “Everyone can be safely desensitized.”
Desensitization is not safe or effective for all individuals.

Myth 12 — “Allergies aren’t real — it’s hypochondria.”
No. Allergies are real. Anaphylaxis is real. The risks are real.

Myth 13 — “If you used an EpiPen, you’re fine now.”
Epinephrine stops the immediate crisis — not the aftermath.

Myth 14 — “Multiple episodes must mean exaggeration.”
Recurring reactions often reflect underlying inflammation or unintended exposure. Frequency doesn’t make it less legitimate.
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What recovery actually looks like:

After nearly a week in my most recent post-anaphylaxis recovery, I finally had enough strength today to return to the self-care rituals that help me cope. There is no real way to prevent the full cascade of symptoms once a reaction begins. There is only careful coping, patience, and respect for the body’s healing.

I share this to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and remind people of something simple:

^Legitimacy matters.
^Belief matters.
^Safety matters.

If even one person takes allergies more seriously because of this, it’s worth it.
Brenda Sedgwick

💬 Time to Wake Up: Substance Use Isn’t a Lifestyle — It’s a Health and Social RiskPeople come in many forms — but those ...
11/12/2025

💬 Time to Wake Up: Substance Use Isn’t a Lifestyle — It’s a Health and Social Risk

People come in many forms — but those who ignore, deny, minimize, or normalize a loved one’s substance use share one thing: ignorance of the facts.

There are 11 clinical criteria that define a Substance Use Disorder. It’s not a moral failure; it’s a medical condition and a social problem wrapped in stigma. Yet most people don’t know the criteria — or what a culture of use looks like in everyday life.

Substance use that interferes with functioning can even affect eligibility for public benefits. Still, family and friends trying to help are often blocked by ignorance or by controlling influences around the person using. Others stay silent, afraid to “intrude.”

Let’s be clear:
🧠 Substance use is a health and relational risk.
🚗 Using daily, or 5+ days a week, or drinking 3+ beverages a day is dangerous use.
💔 It distorts judgment, weakens impulse control, and fuels emotional volatility, overdose, and su***de risk.

We need Health Canada and the Canadian Centre on Substance Use to invest in targeted public education and social marketing. Too many lives are lost to apathy disguised as respect for “personal choice.”

Courage and conviction start with awareness.
Let’s replace silence with truth — and compassion with action.

Brenda Sedgwick
11/12/2025

Brenda Sedgwick

Gaslighting - it's worse than we think! Brenda Sedgwick
11/11/2025

Gaslighting - it's worse than we think! Brenda Sedgwick

ALWAYS REMEMBER AWARENESS IS THE FIRST STEP TO BREAKING THE CYCLE OF GASLIGHTING! Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person seeks to undermine another’s confidence in their own reality, memory, or perception. The goal is to make the victim doubt themselves, fostering depen...

Public Awareness Message Brenda Sedgwick Permissiveness isn’t kindness — it’s the seedbed of addiction, dependency, and ...
11/11/2025

Public Awareness Message Brenda Sedgwick

Permissiveness isn’t kindness — it’s the seedbed of addiction, dependency, and risk.

When care becomes indulgence, conscience loses its footing. Addiction grows not only from substances, but from quiet permission to avoid reality. Those who confuse tolerance with love often become participants in a pattern that rewards denial and punishes truth.

Authoritative love — firm, reasoning, and consistent — cultivates responsibility and conscience. Permissive comfort breeds confusion and fragmentation, inviting the addicted mind to split relationships and restore its own illusion of control. In this space, manipulation replaces dialogue, and survival masquerades as freedom.

Each time we look away, dismiss concern, or mistake chaos for creativity, we reinforce a system that teaches the addicted person to dominate instead of connect.

It’s time for universal education on the moral anatomy of addiction —
^how permissiveness dilutes conscience,
^how relational splitting replaces truth,
^how authentic compassion means holding steady, not giving way.

Love with conscience. Support with structure. Refuse to participate in destruction.

Awesome.
09/28/2025

Awesome.

A good reason to revamp prevention, early intervention, and systemic advocacy.
09/20/2025

A good reason to revamp prevention, early intervention, and systemic advocacy.

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