
09/29/2025
When your child is crying, yelling, or melting down, it’s easy to think they’re ‘overreacting.’ But here’s the truth: big feelings are real feelings. A child’s brain is still learning how to handle intense emotions, and those meltdowns are their way of saying, ‘I’m overwhelmed and don’t know what to do.’
The best thing you can do in those moments? Validate before you fix. Try saying, ‘I can see this feels really big for you right now.’ This simple step calms the nervous system, builds trust, and helps kids learn to handle emotions over time.