02/27/2026
Fridays Feeling
I do enjoy these creative acronyms, as a part of the therapeutic process. Most times it brings a change in the perception and reframes to a more manageable or amicable context. I read one the other day that describes Beautiful Intelligence Tenacious Caring Honest. Now that just resonated with me, as it is captures the characteristics to which we intend the slur to describe, but in a positive manner.
Back in 1969 Thomas Harris came out with the self-help book I'm OK- You're OK as a means to explain and promote Transactional Analysis. Although, I may not ascribe to the methods of TA, I do like the context of self acceptance, from where you are currently.
It is amazing how many times I hear, I am broken, damaged, or dumb, loser, etc, in the vocabulary to describe who a person thinks they are. I am not sure when self-deprecating became an extension of humilty, but that s**t has to stop!
What inspired me today, was partially fueled by an interaction, I experienced earlier in the week. The correlation that as a hypnotherapist or a part of the Mental health realm, some how I should be more tolerant, understanding or accepting of being disrespected or having my good nature tread on. That assumption got me to reflecting on how many associations we make about others, the assumption of who they are, and the conclusion of their character.
We are, all works in progress, we are all far from having our p**p in a group , and winging it in the best way we know how in the moments and with the curve balls thrown our way. There is a well known quote, attributed to Buddha, about holding on to anger, is like drinking poison and expecting the other to die. Self retribution is about as useful as ni***es on a Bull, so how about we start with taking care of you ASAP.
Be well.