Jennifer Spies Life Coach

06/09/2022

Ever lost a friend?

👉 Did you have a falling out?
👉 Did you grow apart?
👉 Did you lose contact and don't know how to reconnect?

No matter what the reason, it can be painful when friendships change or end.

🤨 At this point you might be thinking, “Okay, but what does losing a friendship have to do with Grief Recovery”?

Well, when it comes to grief, most people think about death and divorce, so might not think about the emotional impact of losing a friendship. It might not be a physical death, but didn’t the friendship die?

When that happens you're usually left with a whole host of feelings, unmet hopes, and things you resent and/or wish you could have done differently.

Not only that, but you carry the baggage into other relationships.

❤️‍🩹 You might become less willing to open your heart.
❤️‍🩹 You might be less willing to get close.
❤️‍🩹 You might be less willing to pursue friendships on a deeper level.

I get it, I’ve worn a coat of armor because I didn’t want to get hurt again. At the same time, isn’t being closed off hurting you from living a better life?

Since no one can bet on the friendship coming back, there has to be another way to heal, so you can be available to other people in a deep, meaningful way.

✨That’s where The Grief Recovery Method comes in. It works on living relationships too!

💔 Heartbroken that you aren't close to your siblings in adulthood?
💔 Crushed that your parents didn’t show up for you as you wish they would have when you were a kid?
💔 In emotional pain because your adult children aren’t available for you?

🌟 The Grief Recovery Method will help you feel complete. Unresolved emotional pain is cumulative and cumulatively negative. You can break the pattern!

Today is the day! Send me a direct message right now and we can talk about how going through the grief recovery program can help. It's time to start healing and be the best friend you can be 💙

05/21/2022

04/23/2022

Words are powerful! By changing 1 word we could change our whole day. There is also power in saying it out loud to others. The power of being heard.

04/14/2022

I hate to say that this is a big thing. Not only can it invalidate what the person feels inside that they are genuinly going through, but can lead to alienation from the church. We need to teat people hollistically from all sides. Thats true discernment.

04/08/2022

It matters! Don't let anyone tell you different your invalidate your feelings! It's real-let's deal. Together ❤️

04/04/2022

Take heed!
Listen to your body
Get help if needed!

(Help can be a variety of forms from friends and family to talking to someone who is completely impartial)

03/28/2022

This pain can be tied to grief that carries on into adulthood and affect us in ways we just aren't conscious of. Wouldn't it be great if there was a program that can assist in bringing the end to they pain and lifelong affects it had on us? 🤔😉😉
Contact me.

03/12/2022

I firmly believe that a large amount of addictions, relational issues and non-starter problems are firmly rooted in unresolved grief.

I've coached addicts in recovery and almost all situations (of course not all), can be traced back to either a significant loss or a build up of many losses over time that were not dealt with properly.

Our heart has more to do with our life then we sometimes wish to admit. Talk to me today about how we can begin to heal your heart and start you on a new path in life!

03/08/2022

What is Grief?

Unresolved grief can come from 3 areas:

It is almost always about the things we wish we had said or done differently, better or more.

It is also about the unrealized hopes, dreams and expectations we had for the relationship that has been lost and will never be able to be recovered.

It is also about undelivered communications of an emotional nature.

When these emotional communications are made, the things that we need to say that we never did or weren't able to, things that need to be said again, and things that need to be said again with someone hearing the words, we then have the abiloity to move to a place of completeness that allows us to say goodbye to any pain which may be limiting us from good memories of the relationship and say goodbye to those hopes, dreams and expectations for the future.

Grief recovery is very different from any other therapy or counseling out there.

Contact me if you need to take the first step towards completion from a loss event in your life

03/07/2022

This. This is the reason I'm relaunching this business. The last 2 years have created so much grief in this world. Add to that, at anytime we lose someone, society expects us to be 'back-at-it' within days at the same capacity we were before the loss. I for one am done standing by while I see others in termoil over the loss that has plagued us this passed 2 years.

Life on Fire, Grief Recovery is back.