25/02/2026
Kahkiyaw anohc
Every day.
Every decision. Multiple times a day.
One of my elders, nohkum Ruth Cardinal de Ubiera said to me “my girl, that is just life. And you have to learn to manage it ” as I cried, in circle, about how hard life was and asking when the hard stuff will end…..
Life is still hard. But I use all my tools, teachings and ceremonies to move through the harder things and enjoy the little things. It’s not that life gets easier, but my ability to adapt, discern, pivot and detach from things has strengthened.