06/18/2025
Something I think that doesn't get talked about enough in our society is:
Following your dreams is hard. It isn't a Disney movie where you sing a few songs and everything works out happily ever after.
Following your dreams will challenge you.
At times, it will break you.
You will question your choices.
You will wonder if it's all worth it.
It will take longer than you hoped, and often times, the path to get there will look nothing like you thought.
But here's the thing:
Not following your dreams is just as hard.
Living a life that doesn't fulfill you. That feels empty. That has you looking for escapes and dreading your days. Living a life that feels like a constant chore and slowly degrades your spark. Living a life that isn't actually living.
Both options are hard.
And the beautiful thing is, if both are hard, it makes the decision of which path to take easier.
Why?
Because, if both are just as hard, but only one guarantees you will realize your dreams, then the choice is obvious. If you have the courage to take it.
I say this as I reflect on the life I've chosen with my partner. 6 years ago, we left what we were "supposed" to want- careers, house, cars, holidays, weekends of escape- for a life we wanted- living out in the woods in BC with our animals pursuing what our hearts were calling for. We could have never imagined along the way that the world would shut down, we would go through job loss, family loss, multiple moves, facing our shadows, and nearly ending our relationship more than once. It has been a brutal journey following our dreams. And, it has been the most rewarding, enlightening, heart-opening thing we could have ever done for ourselves. I've lived more in the last 6 years than I did in the prior 28. We weren't living in Saskatchewan, we were maintaining. And slowly, we were losing ourselves. So we took a chance; a rather large leap, and decided to risk it all on our dreams.
Every painful step has been worth it.
So, if you are someone debating what path to take, please know whichever you choose will be hard. So maybe the question to ask is, which hard is worth it for you?
Good luck on your path, I'll be cheering you on from the side lines.
And to everyone that's cheered us on and helped us along the way, truly, thank you. We wouldn't be walking our heart path without your support.