01/23/2026
Most couples don’t come to therapy because they stopped loving each other.
They come because something no longer feels safe.
Emotional safety allows partners to express needs, disagree without fear, and stay connected during conflict. When safety is missing, the nervous system shifts into protection mode — withdrawal, defensiveness, shutdown, or constant arguing often follow.
What looks like a communication problem is often a regulation problem.
What feels like distance is usually self-protection.
Relationship therapy focuses on rebuilding safety so partners can reconnect, communicate more clearly, and feel secure again — not just solve surface-level arguments.