02/16/2026
Darcy & Jer - thank you for the Moncton show this past weekend! 🫶
Comedy shows are my thing - they fully capture my attention, but this one left my neurospicy brain feeling seen, calmer, and genuinely proud.
Because the reflection hit hard: so many kids (and adults) spend their lives getting “fixed” by environments that don’t fit them.
Bad at math? “Get a tutor.”
Can’t sit still? “Try harder.”
Too sensitive? “Toughen up.”
But what if that kid isn’t broken, what if they’re the next Van Gogh… and the world just hasn’t learned their language yet? What if strengthening their superpowers and invested in what they are great at, instead of the above.
As a parent, and as someone who’s led a healthcare company through the hardest seasons of the last five years, I found you both during the pandemic when I needed pure laughter after long days. And I didn’t realize back then how much your humour would become more than a laugh, it became a reset button. A reminder that laughter can mend more than we give it credit for.
You’ve reminded me, post after post, that “neurospicy” isn’t a flaw to manage, it’s a superpower to understand. That coping tricks + acceptance + safe spaces don’t just help our kids… they change the entire temperature of a home, a classroom, a workplace, a relationship.
Also… can we talk about how many CEOs are quietly neurospicy, the research is wild? 😅
The creativity. The pattern-spotting. The intensity. The hyperfocus. The “I will build a whole empire at 2am because I can’t stop thinking” energy.
So thank you @ and , for the laughs, for the truth, and for the reminder to stop asking our kids to be smaller so the room can be more comfortable.
Let them shine where they’re strong, and watch what confidence does. ✨