The Unfiltered Co.

09/11/2025

lil photo dump of some lash sets recently 😮‍💨😍🦋

PS: I am taking lash clients AND lash students..

Aaaand I am now offering UV lashes, too. 🥹🥰

09/11/2025

Brown lashes 😍🦋

09/09/2025

Just finished my first set of UV lashes & I am excited to see how the retention is 😍

09/06/2025

🖤 Soul alchemy isn’t a vision board and a matcha latte.

It’s a f*cking menty B in your ex’s hoodie, googling “how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men” with one hand while texting one back with the other. 👀🫣

It’s realizing your therapist should actually invoice your inner child directly.

And that healing might just mean you stop acting like an unpaid intern in every relationship.

✨Welcome to the Shadowed Orphan era, BBgrrrl.✨

She’s not cute.
She’s feral.
She’s exhausted.
And she will ghost herself just to avoid the chance of being ghosted by someone else.

Because rejection?
You preordered that trauma in utero.

Let’s break this down, shall we?

☠️ Soul alchemy =
burning down every fawn-coded identity you built to feel “safe” in a world that rewards martyrdom, minimal needs, and maximum output.

We’re not talking cute astrology memes and spiritual baths.
We’re talking:

🔥 rage burps
🔥 grief spiral playlists
🔥 realizing you call being walked on “being a good friend”
🔥 calling your ex “the lesson” but still watching his stories
🔥 saying “I’m just really tired” instead of “I hate everyone and I want to scream into a void made of patriarchy and mother wounds”

Oh, and meanwhile…

🧃 you’re saying “of course!” when your whole body is screaming f*ck off
📞 letting people trauma-dump on you like you’re the free trial for therapy
📅 rearranging your life for people who wouldn’t reschedule a wax for you
🧽 doing Olympic-level emotional labor in the DMs for someone who doesn’t even know your middle name

And you call it:

✨ being chill
✨ being low maintenance
✨ being helpful
✨ “just how I am”

Nah queen. That’s the Orphan archetype doing damage in your subconscious like a raccoon in your emotional attic.

She doesn’t need a gratitude list.
She needs to be held.

She doesn’t need another affirmation.
She needs to be witnessed in her wrath.

She doesn’t need to prove s*t.
She needs to come home to herself before she gives away one more fcking ounce of her soul just to be liked.

And this, my ride-or-die, is your invitation:

👑 THE ORPHAN: FROM EXILED TO EXALTATION
A free, unfiltered, unhinged transmission for the ones who left themselves behind and are finally ready to return to the scene of the abandonment.

📅 Sept 20
⏰ 12:30pm MST
💻 Zoom (replay, obvi)
💸 Free.99 — because your inner child has paid enough

🖤 Here’s the link 👑:
https://theunfilteredco.newzenler.com/webinar/the-orphan-from-exiled-to-exaltation/register

Come with your rage.
Come with your shame.
Come with your dead-eyed stare and your emotional slt era in full bloom.

🦋Just come tf HOME. 🦋

09/01/2025

🖤 you actually DON’T have a people-pleasing problem..

you have an “I’ll abandon myself before anyone else can” subconscious pattern (possibly from your lineage, your ex boyfriend, or even a past life where you were rejected for not fitting into the social norms of 1761). And its alive in you..

In your nervous system.
In your subconscious mind.
In your relationships.
In your self trust.

and you know what that looks like?

🧃 saying “yes, of course!” when you meant “f*ck no”
🧽 deep-cleaning the whole house as a love language while no one notices
📞 letting people trauma-dump on you for 56 minutes straight and then thanking them for “opening up”
📅 rearranging your entire week because someone might need you
📉 doing unpaid emotional labor in DMs for strangers who ghost you the second you need something back

and you call it:

✨being helpful
✨being a good friend
✨being low maintenance
✨being the strong one

but underneath it?

you are bone-deep tired
you are quietly resentful
you are holding your breath
and you are craving someone to just say:

“you don’t have to do all this to be loved.”

this, my emerging queen, is the orphan archetype in her shadow era.

🖤she doesn’t trust closeness.
🖤she micromanages her worth.
🖤she keeps score of how much she gives and how little she gets back.
🖤she stays busy so she doesn’t have to feel the ache of never being met.

🕯️ she doesn’t need another list of boundaries.
she needs a f*cking throne.

and that’s where we’re going.

👑 THE ORPHAN: FROM EXILED TO EXALTATION

a free live transmission for the women who ghost themselves before anyone else can
and are so fcking ready* to come home.

📅 sept 20
⏰ 12:30pm MST
💻 zoom (replay available)
💸 free.99 because your nervous system deserves this one

🖤 the link drops this week—watch my stories 👀

it’s not about becoming someone new.
it’s about remembering the version of you who never needed to prove anything in the first place.lio

08/31/2025

✨Things I thought were just ✨quirks✨ but were actually my inner orphan running the show:

– Saying “no worries at all!!” after someone just disrespected the fck outta me 🫠
– Feeling guilty for needing… water? food? rest? basic fcking dignity?
– Getting physically itchy if I don’t reply to a text within 0.3 seconds 🙃
– Thinking I’m soooo independent but secretly craving someone to just… choose me without me having to earn it
– Getting 97 compliments and obsessing over the one weird vibe shift in a conversation from 2 weeks ago
– Believing “being chill” means I’m worthy of love 🧍‍♀️
– Thinking boundaries = being a bad person
– Performing 24/7 like I’m auditioning for the role of “emotionally stable woman #1” in someone else’s life

🖤 Meanwhile, my nervous system is out here filing restraining orders against joy, intimacy, and being seen.

This, sweet angel baby, is the Orphan Archetype™️ in her shadow era.
And she’s TIRED.
Tired of over-giving.
Tired of reading between the lines.
Tired of being “fine.”
Tired of acting like she doesn’t care when all she wants is to be chosen.

✨ The good news? She’s not the end.
She’s the beginning.
The portal.
The f*cking origin story of your Queen, Mystic, Rebel, Priestess self.

She doesn’t need fixing.
She needs a throne. 👑

📅 Sept 20 @ 12:30pm MST
💸 Free.99
🖤 “THE ORPHAN: From Exiled to Exaltation”: a live transmission for the girl inside you who stopped asking to be loved because no one ever came.

✨ Link goes up later this week — keep your eyes on my stories, BBgrrrl.

Until then, try not to “no worries if not!!” your soul into oblivion, k? 🫶💌

08/29/2025

🖤 She is the lead, the density, the heaviness in your body, the dull ache in your chest..

That version of you—the one who:

✨ said “it’s fine” while choking down heartbreak
✨ smiled when she wanted to scream
✨ laughed at the joke that hurt her feelings
✨ apologized for having a need
✨ shrunk her joy so no one would be uncomfortable
✨ praised others for crumbs she was starving for

She’s not weak.
She’s not broken.
She’s not stuck.

She is the lead.
The dense, shadowy starting point of alchemy.
Heavy. Raw. Unrefined.
But holding the seed of gold inside her.

The Orphan archetype isn’t just your pain.
She’s your portal.

Because the version of you that had to abandon herself to be accepted—
is the same version who now knows what real love tastes like.
The one who can spot a fake connection from a mile away.
The one who no longer begs, performs, or overexplains.

The ache she carries?
It’s sacred.
It’s the alchemy.

When you stop trying to override her pain
and start letting it teach you how to return to yourself…
She stops being a wound—
and becomes your f*cking throne.

Here’s how she transmutes:

🖤 Saying yes when you meant no → 👑 Trusting your body to lead
🖤 Earning love with performance → 💗 Receiving without proof
🖤 Shrinking to stay safe → 🔥 Expanding even if they don’t get it
🖤 Feeling like the outsider → 🌟 Belonging to yourself
🖤 Over-giving to feel worthy → 🌸 Letting your existence be enough

This is why I created:

THE ORPHAN: From Exiled to Exaltation

📅 Sept 20
⏰ 12:30pm MST
💸 Free.99
📍 Live on Zoom (replay available)

It’s not a masterclass.
It’s not a strategy.
It’s not “let’s talk about trauma in a cute way.”

It’s a soul transmission for the women who:

💥 ghosted themselves to be loved
💥 still flinch when someone sees them too deeply
💥 crave belonging but also secretly believe they’ll never fully fit anywhere
💥 have carried this orphan ache for too damn long

You don’t need to fix her.
You need to crown her.

Drop I’M COMING HOME and I’ll send you the link.

We’re not talking about the portal.
We’re moving through it.

08/28/2025

🧬✨ UNPOPULAR TRUTH: Your hyper-independence isn’t a flex.
It’s your inner ORPHAN running the f*cking show 🫣🧠💔

You know the one:

✨ “I don’t need anyone.”
✨ “It’s fine, I’ll figure it out myself.”
✨ “I’m used to disappointment.”
✨ “Love? Support? Ha! I have a to-do list 📝🙃”

The Orphan archetype isn’t just some poetic shadow work fluff.

She’s the version of you that got exiled.
Not because you were wrong.
Not because you were broken.
But because no one around you had the capacity to hold your fire, your feelings, your freaking existence 🔥🧍‍♀️💥

So she learned to:

❌ Shrink herself to survive
❌ Stay low maintenance to avoid rejection
❌ Translate abandonment as “normal”
❌ Call control a personality trait
❌ Ghost her own needs to stay “safe”

But underneath it all?
She’s SO. F*CKING. TIRED. 😮‍💨🫀

Tired of…

😵‍💫 Always being the strong one
🫠 Showing up for everyone except herself
😶‍🌫️ Pretending she doesn’t want more
🥀 Craving softness but not trusting it
🧷 Holding it all together with resentment and caffeine

You might be deep in your Orphan Shadow realm iiiif:

🪞 You fall for people who can’t meet you (because that feels like home)
🪞 You feel allergic to asking for help
🪞 You’re scared sh*tless of being seen and not being seen
🪞 You joke about having “trust issues” but secretly think everyone will leave
🪞 You can’t name a desire that isn’t tied to someone else’s needs
🪞 You overgive, under-receive, and pretend you’re fine 💁‍♀️✨

Here’s the thing, sweet angel baby…
The Orphan doesn’t want love.
She wants proof.
Proof she won’t be dropped.
Proof she’s not too much.
Proof her needs aren’t a f*cking burden.

And that version of you?
She doesn’t need to be fixed.
She doesn’t need another journaling prompt.
She needs a f*cking throne. 👑🖤

📣 So no, this is not a masterclass.
This is not a PDF.
This is not where you sit quietly and “learn” how to be worthy.

This is where we unlearn all the bullsh*t that taught you:

🧨 “You’re not enough”
🧨 “You’re too much”
🧨 “What if they don’t like me?”
🧨 “Setting boundaries means I’ll end up alone”
🧨 “I’m not worth showing up for unless I’m useful”
🧨 “Who TF has time for desires when I’m just trying to survive?”

🎤 NO. MORE. QUEEN.

Introducing:

🖤 THE ORPHAN: From Exiled to Exaltation 🖤

📅 September 20
⏰ 12:30pm MST
💸 Free.99 (because coming home to yourself should NOT be behind a paywall)
📍 Zoom — link sent after registration

This is for the ones who…

🖤 Are over-functioning but under-supported
🖤 Are done performing for connection
🖤 Are ready to belong to themselves first
🖤 Secretly crave to be held, chosen, and cherished — but can’t admit it out loud

👑 Drop I’M COMING HOME in the comments or DM me and I’ll send you the free link.

Let’s do what no one ever did for her.
Let’s stop abandoning her.
Let’s EXALT her

08/16/2025

✨WEEKLY AVAILABILITY: AUGUST 19–24 ✨

If your nervous system is craving calm or your lashes are craving fluff—this is your week to book it in, babe. I’ve got cozy lash naps, deep healing, and main character vibes waiting for you 🦋💅

Here’s what’s available this week:

🩷 Mon–Wed (Aug 19–21)
7:30PM–10:00PM | Lashes only
Evening appointments for the babes who want to unwind, nap, and wake up with better boundaries and fluffier lashes 💁🏼‍♀️

🩷 Thursday Aug 22
4:00PM–10:00PM | Healing or Lashes
Midweek magic—come get rebalanced, refreshed, or refilled.

🩷 Friday Aug 23
10:00AM–4:00PM | Healing or Lashes
Start your weekend off regulated, radiant, and ridiculously cute.

🩷 Saturday Aug 24
10:00AM–3:00PM | Healing or Lashes
Soft girl Saturday: for nervous system resets or strip-lash glam without the glue 💖

✨Silent appointments available (because peace is the vibe)
✨Weighted blanky + warm energy included
✨Lash appointments always come with compliments & cozy
✨Healing sessions include nervous system support, energy clearing, subconscious work, and holding space for your whole self

📲 BOOK HERE:

💖 Lashes: https://theunfilteredbeautyco.as.me/lashes

🌿 Healing: https://theunfilteredbeautyco.as.me/healing

Your week of softness, glow-ups, and sacred space is open.
DM me with questions—or go grab your spot before she’s gone ✨

Schedule your appointment online The Unfiltered Beauty Co.

08/12/2025

🦋WEEKLY ASTROLOGY🦋

🧠 MONDAY, AUG 11 — Mercury Stations Direct in Cancer

Mercury (planet of communication, tech, the mind, and all the chaos it’s caused lately) FINALLY stops retrograding and turns its butt around 🌀🚦

And it does so in Cancer, the sign of feelings, nostalgia, ancestral wounding, and crying in the shower while hugging your crystals 🫠🫧

💬 You might get deep clarity about what you really needed to say (and who it needs to be said to).

💡 TL;DR: Emotional truth bombs might drop… gently.

📝 Prompt: Where am I ready to speak from softness instead of defence?

💕 TUESDAY, AUG 12 — Venus Conjunct Jupiter in Cancer

VENUS (love, beauty, cash, self-worth) and JUPITER (expansion, blessings, “go big or go home” energy) are spooning in Cancer, and it’s making you FEEL THINGS. 🥺🍷💦

This is cosmic permission to stop settling, stop shrinking, and stop ghosting your desires.

👑 It’s “I deserve luxury AND emotional safety” energy.

💡 TL;DR: Big love. Big money. Big feelings. Big emotional upgrades.

📝 Prompt: What am I ready to receive without guilt, hustle, or apology?

⚡WED–FRI — Saturn Sextile Uranus

Saturn = structure, discipline, time daddy ⏳
Uranus = chaos gremlin, breakthrough queen, destroyer of comfort zones 🔥

These two are actually getting along (rare), which means you can make real change that lasts.
Think: “build the dream AND the nervous system that can hold it.” 😌💪🛠️

💡 TL;DR: Magic meets maturity. Structure meets wildness. Plans get spicy.

📝 Prompt: What new system or structure would make my freedom sustainable?

🔥 THURS–SAT — Mercury Sextile Mars

Mercury’s like “speak it.”
Mars is like “DO IT.”
Together? 🔫 They’re the power duo that finally gets you to film the damn Reel, send the DM, or rewrite your bio like the boss you are.

👄 This transit is fast, sharp, witty, and wildly clarifying. If it’s been bottled up? It’s coming out.

💡 TL;DR: Say the thing. Write the truth. Move on it. Trust the flame.

📝 Prompt: What truth am I DONE swallowing?

🌞 SUNDAY, AUG 17 — Sun Enters Virgo

Bye Leo’s “main character energy” 👑, hello Virgo’s “get your s**t together and cleanse the altar” vibes. Virgo season arrives with herbal tea, clean sheets, and your guides whispering:

“Maybe now is a good time to actually do the shadow work.”

It’s not giving boring—it’s giving sacred discipline.

💡 TL;DR: Time to embody the wisdom. Reboot your rituals. Make healing sexy again.

📝 Prompt: Where is my body craving more clarity, rhythm, and devotion?

🔮 TL;DR WEEKLY ENERGY CHECKLIST:

✨ Speak the soft truth.
✨ Let yourself RECEIVE without earning it.
✨ Build the damn system.
✨ Say the bold thing.
✨ Prep your rituals, Virgo is coming.

🧹 Drop a 🧽 if you’re ready to Virgo your entire nervous system.

💄 Drop a 💋 if you’re reclaiming your Venusian magnetism.

⚡Drop a ⚔️ if it’s time to speak your spicy truth, no filter.

07/27/2025

✨🌒 Weekly Astro Forecast: July 28 – August 3 🌕✨
(aka: that week where the cosmos presses all your buttons… just to see what shakes loose 😅)

Sweet angel babies… if you thought Leo season was just about sparkles, sass, and strutting around like the main character… WHOOPSIESSS!😬

This week is serving depth, destiny, and divine detangling with a side of soul-level glow-ups.

Let’s break it down 👇🏼👇🏼

💖 Monday, July 28:
Venus trine Chiron | Moon conjunct Mars | Moon square Venus
Venus (planet of love & pleasure) is doing some deep healing work with Chiron (the wounded healer). Translation? That thing in love, joy, or body that has felt “broken”—it’s now a portal. Add a little moon + Mars fire to the mix and you’ve got emotions running wild like they just found your finsta.

🧨 Real-life energy: Wanting to scream-cry-text your ex while simultaneously applying rose oil and telling yourself you deserve better.

📝 Journal prompt:
→ Where is my feminine energy asking to be seen, honoured, or reclaimed?
→ What no longer feels true in how I relate to love, pleasure, or connection?

🔮 Tuesday, July 29:
Isis square the Nodes of Fate
Isis (yes, the goddess) squares the nodes (aka your soul’s GPS), shaking loose some dusty karmic patterns that have been clinging like glitter after a music fest. It’s time to step forward, not backward.

🌪 Real-life vibe: Like your higher self just burst into your shower to say, “Quit dating that walking red flag, boo thang.”

📝 Journal prompt:
→ What ancestral or past-life patterns am I ready to leave behind—even if I don’t fully understand them?
→ If I trusted my soul to lead, where would I go from here?

🖤 Wednesday, July 30:
Chiron stations retrograde | Venus enters Cancer
Chiron hits reverse and says, “Let’s talk about those core wounds you thought you buried.” Meanwhile, Venus floats into Cancer like, “Don’t worry, sweet boo thang—I’ve got tea and a weighted blanket.” This is less surface healing, more soul excavation.

🫠 Real-life energy: Crying while looking through old journals, then making soup and hugging your inner child.

📝 Journal prompt:
→ What part of me have I judged, rejected, or exiled… that is ready to be loved home?
→ What identity is crumbling — and what truth wants to take its place?

🌞 Thursday, July 31:
Mercury Cazimi (aka: Mercury in the Heart of the Sun)
Breakthroughs. Clarity. Cosmic downloads. Mercury (the planet of communication) gets an exclusive meeting with the Sun in Leo. Your true voice is ready to come online—louder, braver, and unfiltered. You might finally say the thing.

📡 Real-life moment: Like you’re channeling Oprah, Beyoncé, and your inner child at once.
📝 Journal prompt:
→ What truth have I been circling… but not fully claiming?
→ Where have I been dimming my light to make others comfy.

🌊 Friday, August 1:
Venus square Saturn + Neptune
Venus (your love language) is under pressure from Saturn (boundaries) and Neptune (illusions). It’s a tug-of-war between fantasy and reality, and the Universe wants you to pick the truth—even if it stings.

🧱 Real-life moment: Getting real about who makes you feel cherished vs. who’s just emotionally breadcrumbing you with fire emojis.

📝 Journal prompt:
→ What part of my feminine essence have I been afraid to show the world?
→ What would it feel like to be fully seen… and safe?

🌑 Saturday, August 2:
Medusa conjunct the Moon | Trine Mary Magdalene
Divine feminine resurrection. Medusa roots you into your primal power. Magdalene holds your hand as you embody it. The patriarchy? Not invited. 😌

🌪 Real-life moment: Screaming into a pillow, then dancing naked to Florence + the Machine.

📝 Journal prompt:
→ What are my roots plugged into?
→ What does my body know… that my mind still resists?

🔮 Sunday, August 3:
Mercury square Hekate
Mercury (truth-teller) meets Hekate (goddess of the crossroads). Clarity is coming, but she’s not whispering—she’s yelling. You’re being asked to make the choice. Pick the portal. Choose the damn door.

🫣 Real-life moment: Knowing full well what you need to do… and finally having the ovaries to do it.

📝 Journal prompt:
→ What truth do I now see — and can no longer ignore?
→ What door must I walk through, even if I’m scared s**tless?

🔥 Overall theme this week:
The feminine rises, the truth burns, and your soul is the phoenix.

You are not here to play small.

You are not here to dim.

You are here to feel it all, heal it all, and then strut out of the ashes like the magnificent, messy miracle you are.

Let’s get witchy, wild, and honest, sweet boo thangs 💋

Drop a 🔥 if you’re feeling this week’s energy already…H