10/22/2025
Waiting
Sitting in a busy medical clinic — waiting.
A Hollywood game show hums on the television,
its laughter and applause a soft lullaby,
pulling me toward sleep.
Stopped at an intersection —
a long freight train groans by,
car after car after car.
It feels like the longest red light in the world.
Nowhere to go.
Just waiting.
Standing in line at the gas station,
the attendant helps an older woman
choose her lucky lottery tickets —
the ones she hopes will bring
a million-dollar dream.
I watch the clock,
and wait.
Just ordered a cappuccino, non dairy,
I watch the barista whip it a work of art,
Navigating the steamy frothing machine,
The smell of coffee, comforting,
I wait.
We spend so much of our lives waiting —
and perhaps that’s okay.
Each pause is an invitation:
to feel the body sitting or standing,
to notice the heartbeat,
the breath,
the sounds of life unfolding.
Instead of rushing ahead,
what if we simply allowed this space —
this moment of not-doing —
to be a quiet gift?
If you find yourself waiting today,
may you take a breath,
soften your shoulders,
and give thanks
for this unexpected opportunity
to come home to yourself.
—Gary
Gary Petingola, MSW, RSW
Sudbury, Ontario, Canada
Mindfulness on the Rocks | mindfulnessontherocks.ca
Certified to teach Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, Mindfulness Center, Brown University School of Public Health / Qualified to teach MBSR, Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, & Society, UMASS. Author ofThe Response: Practising Mindfulness in Your Daily Life