01/08/2026
The Bookmark
At the end of the school day, he gently pulled them from his backpack. One by one, he intentionally placed them on the kitchen counter for me to see, offering an artful critique of each piece.
One bookmark depicted a tall wooden ladder, inviting the reader to climb until they could reach for a giant hot air balloon floating in the sky. Another illustrated a vast mountain range, with footprints meandering along its lower edge. A red, thin line represented lava. A third was a drawing of the moon and our green-and-blue planet, Earth. It was extraordinarily simple, but so peaceful and profound. An Earth that whispered of our interconnection, our shared care, and hope. There were twelve bookmarks in total.
He spoke of selling them, then quickly added that for family members, they were free. He proudly gifted me with the one of the mountain range, footprints, and lava.
In many ways, we too are bookmarked—held between the past and the future of our lives. The pages before us tell the story of where we have been—our joys, our struggles, the paths we have walked. The pages ahead remain unread, waiting to unfold in their own time. They invite us to gently witness what is yet to arrive.
This is an in-between place of being. A bardo.
Spend some time lingering here.
Honour how far you have come.
Gently, welcome what comes next.
—Gary
Gary Petingola, MSW, RSW
Sudbury, Ontario, Canada
Mindfulness on the Rocks | mindfulnessontherocks.ca
Certified to teach Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, Mindfulness Center, Brown University School of Public Health / Qualified to teach MBSR, Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, & Society, UMASS. Author ofThe Response: Practising Mindfulness in Your Daily Life.