01/19/2026
Everyday Practices for Regulation
Some of the simple ways I teach patients to reconnect with their bodies and increase awareness are as follows:
- Mindfulness of the breathing body. This is one of the four foundations of mindfulness, and in practice it can be as simple as what I refer to as the “3-Breath Snack”. When you do notice your breathing is “tight”, or a mood or emotion or thought is arising in a distracting way, simply pause and take slow 3 intentional breaths with a nice long exhale on each one. This may help breathe some space around whatever thought, feeling or sensation is present and diffuse its distraction a little bit. It’s like opening a window a small crack and enjoying a bit of fresh air.
- Quick body scan. If, for instance, you are prone to low back or hip pain, it’s wise to check specific areas routinely throughout the day for any unnecessary gripping or tension in your feet, quads (thighs), calves and gluteal muscles, and notice when your posture is being hoisted upwards by your shoulders. Notice when you are standing as well as sitting. This is a typical avoidance response to chronic pain. When you make a point of checking in regularly, you’ll notice any habit of gripping, which is a waste of energy. You can then take the opportunity to soften and sink into a stable, relaxed and grounded posture, reducing your gripping and effort and training your nervous system know that it’s ok to let go. The more you notice, the easier it is to let go and you are also changing the pattern. This practice can go a long way in reducing the intensity and frequency of pain.
- Qigong exercises. I prescribe a specific exercise depending on your unique condition and treatment goals. These are gentle, repetitive and simple exercises that make sense, feel good, and help you develop a skill that you will use for your lifetime.
Just remember that regulation is dynamic and relative, and restoring balance & harmony is integral to good health. Small, routine practices are super helpful not only for mindful awareness and alleviating symptoms, but developing more acceptance and trust with your body.
Thanks for reading,
Nancy