
01/15/2024
Seeing a lot of posts about blue Monday today. And I just wanted to share my thoughts. Winter by it's very nature is a darker season in our lives. The days are shorter, the weather's colder, and access to nature's Vitamin D is less abundant.
For many reasons, it is a depressing time for many. I'm not dismissing any of the mental health issues that come along with adjusting to this season. However, I just want to look at it a different way for a minute.
What if a lot of those feelings of down or blue or sad have to do resisting this time of slowing down, turning inward and reflection? When we are depressed our bodies need sleep. We live in a Go Go Go, Do More, Be More society and that is the opposite of winter. We are 2 weeks into the New Year and any intentions that you had set for yourself may have fallen apart already. Perhaps that comes with a feeling of guilt or shame. The time of reflection may lead us to thinking about our pasts or regrets or comparison to others in what they have or what we don't, focusing on things that we feel that we should be or should have accomplished by now. Winter wants us to slow down, to quiet and still our lives, yet, for many that feels lazy or unproductive.
So what if instead of resisting that and pushing ourselves harder this time of year, we followed the season and slowed down? Went to bed earlier, gave ourselves the grace to do less, be less, for others and the world. And just be there for ourselves right now. Spend this time reflecting on all that we are, the good that we are, all that we have and love and bring us joy? And nourish ourselves.
And if that's a difficult stretch for you, just know that as always, this season will pass.