02/05/2025
Yoga Sutra 1.33 from Patanjali says:
“By cultivating attitudes of friendliness toward the happy, compassion for the unhappy, delight in the virtuous, and disregard toward the wicked, the mind-stuff retains its undisturbed calmness.”
maitri karuna muditopeksanam sukha duhkha punyapunya visayanam bhavanatas citta prasadanam
Nischala Joy Devi interprets this sutra as representing four locks that block us from our natural peaceful state.
The four locks are:
sukha (happy people who we are a little jealous of),
dukha (unhappy people who bring us down, or we look down upon),
punya (the virtuous people being noble who we resent or criticize), and apunya (the not-so-virtuous people who trigger us, and oppose our core values aka evil).
Using the driving example:
1) people happily driving the speed limit when we are late and in a rush
2) people stuck on the side of the road
3) seniors driving cautiously
4) reckless drivers with no regard for others safety
Patanjali offers 4 keys to open these locks so we can remain peaceful, centred when encountering others.
The four keys are:
maitri (friendliness or loving-kindness),
karuna (compassion),
mudita (delight), and
upeksha (disregard or equanimity)
Using the driving example:
1) smile, slow down and let the happy driver be the ‘pace car’
2) have compassion and stop to help the driver on the side of the road*
3) exercise patience with senior drivers, delight in their independence.
4) honking your horn (confronting or trying to argue with) a reckless driver will unlikely change their behaviour and likely escalate the situation. AVOID these drivers. Calmly contact the authorities who are trained and equipped to keep the peace.**
*Recently my car was stuck on a slippery hill and a kind pedestrian saw me struggling and slipping. He QUICKLY gestured to me, with out hesitation, “do you want me to push your car? I gave him the thumbs up with sincere gratitude. My spinning tires may have sprayed him with dirty slush, for which I am sorry. HE WAS SO COMPASSIONATE, it was his first impulse.
Sources: The Secret Power of Yoga by Nischala Joy Devi
**I am not sure if this is an official Oprah video or just a compilation but it speaks to the idea behind this sutra. Silence is GOLDEN. Retain your equanimity when confronted with some who is just looking for a reaction.
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