03/29/2026
One of the things I talked about during my session with Fertility Friends Foundation for Endometriosis Awareness Month was the idea of so-called “silent” endometriosis.
And honestly, I think that phrase can be misleading.
Sometimes symptoms are not absent.
Sometimes people have simply become very good at managing them.
When I ask a few more questions, the story often changes.
Are periods really painless, or has someone just learned to expect that level of pain?
Are bowel symptoms truly not a problem, or has that person developed routines, workarounds, and coping strategies that help them get through the day?
They may not be missing work or school.
They may not look obviously unwell from the outside.
But that does not mean symptoms are insignificant.
It may just mean they have adapted.
That is why history taking matters so much.
Not just asking whether symptoms exist, but asking how someone is living with them.
This clip is from the Q&A, and I think it gets at something important:
sometimes what looks “silent” is actually symptoms that have been normalized, minimized, or managed for so long that they stop being recognized for what they are.
Have you seen this in your own life or clinical practice?