02/16/2022
It usually takes me a few weeks to get a new diet plan in play (either for personal health reasons or to test out the diet patterns I work with professionally).
I have to change things one meal at a time, do it wrong a bunch of times, brainstorm workarounds while my mind wanders in the shower.
(At least I know I’m in the right field).
Anyway, this whole ‘one step forward, two steps back’ phenomenon for which lifestyle change efforts are so famous, shows up in all kinds of facets of our lives.
There’s this powerful inertia of both habit and thought that tends to keep us suspended in decisional purgatory whenever we have a mind to make a palpable change in something.
Think of how often you were inspired to action by some book, or story, or opportunity, or random thought, only to judge yourself silly at the end of the day (or week) for having been so initially jazzed.
The clearest example of this (in my world) is probably when people, in a moment of clarity, come to see that decades of efforts at ‘weight loss’ have been fruitless and even detrimental to overall health (both mental and physical). In that moment, it is possible to get into a mental space of committing to let go of the obsessive self-regulation in favour of espousing the more allowing practice of self-observation and self-determination around food (often called intuitive or mindful eating).
But once the usual patterns of our day are back in full swing, so are the usual patterns of thoughts.
What seemed like a wholesome aspiration in a moment of inspiration, is discarded as idealistic, or unrealistic, or frivolous when we cycle back to our default state of mind. The inertia of our usual convictions easily displaces new and uncharted ideas.
Of course, it does. Our convictions are comfortable and automatic. It’s to be expected that when we think outside our comfort zone, we will at some point dismiss those new thoughts as ‘not for us’.
Here are 3 strategic actions to give yourself a chance towards making progress in a new direction, even if it’s messy and slower than you envisioned.
https://monikathedietitian.com/blog-1/making-diet-changes-stick