01/05/2026
Anxiety during Grieving Is Normal
Anxiety, a common symptom of grief, can be overwhelming. Individuals experience many symptoms including panic attacks, feelings of helplessness, a sense of losing control, irritability, insomnia and difficulty concentrating. Death turns people’s worlds upside down. Life is no longer predictable and we are vulnerable; we become painfully aware that there are no guarantees in life. Our bodies react with anxiety to this threatening and sometimes unconscious awareness.
In the case of panic attacks, it is wise to consult a physician to ensure there are no underlying medical causal factors. And, psychotherapy with a professional counsellor may be worth considering, especially if one finds oneself becoming increasingly isolated, depressed or paralyzed by fear.
When symptoms of anxiety appear, there are many self-directed activities that can serve as coping aids. Guided imagery and meditation are excellent for promoting relaxation and a healing of the body and mind. There are many online sites dedicated to teaching these practices. Sometimes just going for a walk, going to a movie or pursuing a favourite hobby, as a way of redirecting ones mental focus, can aid in easing the stress associated with anxiety.
One of the best things in your toolkit for handling anxiety is something you do thousands of times a day: breathe. Just remembering to breathe deeply can be an effective coping mechanism. At times of stress, we tend to lapse into a pattern of shallow breathing, yet breathing from the abdomen allows more oxygen to enter the bloodstream. From this comes a decrease in heart rate and blood pressure, plus our muscles relax and stress becomes more manageable. As the physical symptoms of anxiety are reduced, we free up energy to better deal with the world making it easier to gain a broader understanding and acceptance of our changed lives.
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