02/12/2026
There are no words that feel like enough today. 🌿
Our province is grieving the loss of children and community members in Tumbler Ridge. In a small town where everyone knows everyone, this is a weight no community should have to hold.
I want to remind you that collective grief and vicarious trauma are real. Your response is human, and it often shows up in ways we don't expect.
This weight may look like:
Emotional: Anger, numbness, deep sadness, or a desperate search for answers.
Physical: A tight chest, knots in your stomach, exhaustion, or feeling "on edge" (hyper-vigilance).
The Ripple Effect: A tragedy like this often acts as a mirror, triggering old grief or past traumas you’ve carried in your own life. It is normal for "unrelated" pains to surface right now.
If you find yourself reeling, please be extra kind to yourself. Look at the ground beneath your feet—the same earth that holds us all—and take one slow breath. We are all connected, and it is okay to be not okay- reach out💚
Resources for Support:
BC Mental Health Support: 310-6789 (24/7)
9-8-8 Su***de Crisis Helpline: Call or text 9-8-8
Hope for Wellness Helpline: 1-855-242-3310 (Indigenous-led support)
BC Bereavement Helpline: 1-877-779-2223
KUU-US Indigenous Crisis Line: 1-800-588-8717