Safe Haven Holistic Counselling

11/19/2025

For our healing journey in our life, one of the most significant to make sense the life of us and our parents. 🌹🤗💐

11/19/2025

A beautiful Full Moon for You

07/01/2025

Belonging to Something Bigger

There’s a quiet ache many of us carry, even if we rarely name it. It’s the longing to feel part of something larger—something that gives meaning to our efforts, our suffering, our joy.

We want to believe our lives aren’t just isolated stories, but threads in a greater pattern. For some, this once came from religion or spiritual belief. Others found it in tradition, family, or shared purpose. But in our modern, fractured world, many of those structures have faded—or no longer speak to us the same way.

Nietzsche famously declared, “God is dead.” It wasn’t a celebration, but a recognition of a loss. When the old beliefs fall away, what remains? Without something bigger to belong to, we can feel unanchored—adrift in personal goals, but unsure of the larger why.

And yet the hunger remains. We look for meaning in movements, in causes, in art, in love, in nature, in the quiet need to help others. We build new forms of connection, new rituals, new beliefs. Even in disbelief, we still long for belonging—not just to people, but to purpose.

Maybe it’s not about returning to old systems, but about listening to that longing instead of dismissing it. Letting it guide us toward something honest and expansive, even if it’s fragile. A sense that we’re not just here to survive or succeed, but to take part in something that lives beyond us.

Do you feel this too? And what helps you feel connected to something larger—whether seen or unseen, old or newly made?

'The Creation of Adam' [detail], 1512 by Michelangelo

07/01/2025

What if we could recognize our faults and look to see what is beyond them?

What if we could see, with great tenderness, the painful unmet needs that have shaped our behaviors?

For many of us, this process is the work of a lifetime, one that requires the active support of loved ones, therapists, spiritual teachers, or healers.

Yet it begins the moment that we are willing to look at ourselves through the eyes of compassion.

07/01/2025

Jungian psychologist Marie-Louise von Franz on the harsh truth of potential left unfulfilled:

“People who have a creative side and do not live it out are most disagreeable clients. They make a mountain out of a molehill, fuss about unnecessary things, are too passionately in love with somebody who is not worth so much attention, and so on. There is a kind of floating charge of energy in them which is not attached to its right object and therefore tends to apply exaggerated dynamism to the wrong situation.”

~Marie-Louise von Franz, Shadow and Evil in Fairy Tales https://amzn.to/3I2LEhb [ad]

'A young girl preparing Chanterelles', 1892 by Peter Ilsted

07/01/2025

06/23/2025

We are so grateful for the kind words shared by one of our wonderful clients. 💛

Reading heartfelt reviews like this reminds us why we do what we do — to create a safe, supportive space where healing and growth can happen.

To our current and future clients: know that you are not alone. We’re here to walk alongside you, offering compassionate guidance every step of the way. 🌿✨

Thank you for trusting Safe Haven Holistic Counselling. 💬🫶

06/16/2025

💬 Feeling disconnected in your relationship? You’re not alone.
Whether it’s communication challenges, trust issues, or growing apart—you don’t have to face it alone.
At Safe Haven Holistic Counselling, we help couples reconnect, rebuild, and grow stronger—together. ❤️
🌿 Compassionate, evidence-based support
🌿 LGBTQ+ affirming & judgement-free
🌿 In-person & virtual sessions available
✨ A stronger relationship starts with one small step.

Your safe space for healing and growth is just one click away.
🔗 https://safehavenholisticcounselling.com/
magditornyai@gmail.com

05/30/2025

How do you deal with choice? Uncertainty? Not knowing? Mystery? 🌀