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Kelowna EMDR Clinic, 506-550 Osprey Avenue, Kelowna, BC (2025)

11/20/2025

Trauma doesn’t just shape how someone feels — it reshapes how the brain works.

When the nervous system stays in survival mode, the parts of the brain responsible for concentration, memory, and decision-making become overwhelmed.

People may find themselves zoning out, forgetting simple things, or feeling paralyzed by choices.

This isn’t weakness or lack of discipline; it’s the brain protecting itself after too much stress for too long.

With therapies like EMDR, the brain gradually learns to leave survival mode, restore clarity, and rebuild the ability to think, remember, and choose with confidence.

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11/17/2025

1. “I hear your apology, and I’m not ready to close this yet.”
Shows presence without fake forgiveness.

2. “Thank you for acknowledging it. I still need space to process what came up.”
Keeps the door open without rushing.

3. “I appreciate you saying sorry. My system is still activated, so I need time.”
Names the body’s pace.

4. “I heard you. Right now, I’m not in a place to move forward.”
Simple, steady, boundary-rich.

5.“I’m not ready to accept the apology fully. I need to understand what I’m feeling.”
Centres self-awareness.

6.“Thank you. I’m still sitting with the impact of what happened.”
Doesn’t dismiss the harm.

7.“I need a pause before we talk about repair.”
A clean, therapist-style timeout.

8.“We can revisit this later—right now, I need to regulate first.”
Models emotional pacing.

9.“I appreciate the apology, but trust/comfort won’t reset instantly for me.”
A calm truth bomb.

10. “I’m not ready to move on yet. Let’s come back to this when my body feels safer.”
An EMDR therapist’s holy sentence.

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11/15/2025

Toxic traits are patterns that quietly damage relationships—things like avoidance, defensiveness, manipulation, emotional invalidation, jealousy, or never taking accountability.

These behaviours usually start as coping mechanisms, but when they go unchecked, they create distance, confusion, and exhaustion for everyone involved.

Naming toxic traits isn’t about shaming people; it’s about understanding the habits that keep us stuck so we can replace them with healthier communication, self-awareness, and emotional responsibility.

Growth begins the moment we stop saying “that’s just how I am” and start asking, “why do I respond this way, and how can I change it?”

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11/12/2025

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Many people want or need therapy but don’t know where to begin—often because they feel overwhelmed, unsure where to look, or afraid of being judged.

The truth is, therapy isn’t just for “serious” problems; it’s for anyone who wants to understand themselves better, heal, or grow.

You might need therapy if you constantly feel anxious or emotionally drained, if you’re struggling to manage stress or relationships, if you notice patterns of self-sabotage or burnout, or if your thoughts and emotions feel too heavy to handle alone.

Reaching out for help is not a weakness—it’s a sign of self-awareness and courage.

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11/10/2025

Anxiety is often misunderstood as a problem to fix, but in truth, it’s a symptom—a signal from your body that something deeper needs attention.

It’s your nervous system’s way of saying, “Something feels unsafe,” whether that’s physical, emotional, or situational.

When you treat anxiety as a messenger instead of an enemy, you can uncover what it’s really pointing to: unmet needs, suppressed emotions, or environments that drain your sense of safety.

Healing begins not by silencing anxiety, but by listening to it. Understanding

what your anxiety is trying to communicate helps you respond with compassion, create boundaries, and restore balance to your life.

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11/08/2025

When someone experiences a threat, the nervous system can trigger one of three automatic survival responses: fight, flight, or freeze.

While fight and flight are active reactions, the freeze response locks the body and mind into a state of paralysis—unable to move, speak, or process clearly.

This can feel like being mentally “shut down” or disconnected from the present moment.

Grounding techniques are especially helpful for people who freeze because they re-engage the body and senses, sending signals of safety back to the brain.

Simple practices like naming five things you can see, placing your feet firmly on the floor, holding something with texture, or taking slow counted breaths can help shift the nervous system out of overwhelm and back into regulation.

With consistency, grounding becomes a bridge from frozen survival mode to calm, conscious awareness.

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11/07/2025

Therapists play a crucial role in creating a space where clients feel genuinely safe, seen, and unjudged.

A supportive therapeutic environment allows clients to explore their emotions, express vulnerability, and process difficult experiences without fear of shame or dismissal. This kind of space isn’t accidental—it’s intentionally built through consistent warmth, emotional attunement, and respect for the client’s pace and boundaries.

When a client feels welcomed rather than analyzed, heard rather than corrected, and supported rather than rushed, deeper healing becomes possible.

5 Ways Therapists Can Support a Safe + Welcoming Space:

👉 Normalize all emotions — remind clients that no feeling is “too much” or “wrong.”

👉 Use validating language — reflect feelings back without minimizing or fixing.

👉 Invite consent throughout the process — ask before exploring sensitive topics or interventions.

👉 Maintain non-judgmental body language — open posture, soft tone, steady eye contact.

👉 Hold space for silence — don’t rush clients to speak or find answers instantly.

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11/05/2025

Therapists spend their days holding space for other people’s pain, but before they can do that safely, they have to ground themselves first.

A regulated therapist is a more present, attuned, and trauma-informed therapist.

Grounding before a session protects against emotional spillover, countertransference, burnout, and compassion fatigue, while helping the therapist stay in their window of tolerance.

Five powerful ways to self-ground include:

1. Somatic check-in — scan the body for tension and intentionally release it;

2. Box breathing or 4-7-8 breath to regulate the nervous system;

3. A quick sensory reset like holding something cold or smelling essential oils;

4. A mini mindfulness moment such as naming five things you can see, hear, and feel;

5. Setting an internal boundary ritual—for example, placing a hand on your heart and reminding yourself, “This is their story, not mine.”

When a therapist enters the room calm, centered, and embodied, the client feels it instantly. Grounding isn’t a luxury—it’s ethical care.

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11/02/2025

Preventative trauma therapy is one of the most overlooked forms of mental health care.

Most people wait until they’re already dealing with PTSD, burnout, or emotional collapse before seeking help—especially in high-stress fields like emergency medicine, firefighting, law enforcement, veterinary care, and crisis response.

But trauma doesn’t have to reach its breaking point.

Early EMDR therapy can reduce the risk of developing PTSD, improve focus and decision-making under pressure, protect your mental and physical health, and even shift the culture in trauma-exposed professions from “just tough it out” to “take care of yourself before it’s too late.”

Want a deeper breakdown? We’ve released a full video on our YouTube channel where we walk through the five key benefits of preventative trauma treatment.

👉 Watch the full video: Kelowna EMDR Clinic – link in bio.

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10/31/2025

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When most people think of trauma therapy, they imagine something that happens after a crisis—after PTSD has taken hold, after burnout sets in, or after someone breaks down. But what if therapy didn’t have to wait until things got that far?

Preventative trauma treatment is about addressing the impact of traumatic exposure before it becomes deeply rooted.

For first responders, ER staff, veterinarians, or anyone who regularly faces high-stress or life-and-death situations, early EMDR therapy can significantly reduce the risk of developing PTSD, improve focus and resilience, and protect mental health and relationships.

It doesn’t just help the individual—it helps change the culture around mental health in trauma-related professions, creating a world where seeking support early is seen as strength, not weakness.

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10/29/2025

Sometimes a long-term client can forget to mention a very important part of their life — not because they’re hiding something, but because the therapeutic space can start to feel so safe and routine that certain events stop feeling “new” or “relevant” to bring up.

Familiarity can blur the line between what’s been said and what hasn’t.

Often, clients assume their therapist already knows, or they unconsciously minimize the significance of an event that’s emotionally loaded. To prevent this, therapists can:

(1) regularly review the client’s life domains (work, relationships, health, family, etc.) during sessions,

(2) ask open-ended catch-up questions like “Has anything changed recently that I should know about?”,

(3) use periodic check-in forms to refresh context, and

(4) revisit treatment goals every few months to uncover new or missed details.

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10/26/2025

— Link in Our BIO 🔗 Watch Our YouTube video where we share in detail why you love horror movies -

Ever wondered why you find comfort in horror movies? From a psychological perspective, horror gives your nervous system a safe way to experience and release fear.

You know something scary is coming—the tension builds, your heart races, and then comes the relief. That predictable cycle actually helps regulate emotions and reset the body’s stress response.

In EMDR therapy, we use a similar principle: helping the brain safely revisit and process distressing emotions while maintaining control. So when you watch horror, you’re not just chasing thrills—you’re giving your brain a rehearsal in resilience.

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