02/26/2026
Self-care has become one of the most common prescriptions for stress, exhaustion, and overwhelm. Take a bath. Light a candle. Step outside for ten minutes. Meditate. Journal. The variations are endless, and while each can be helpful, there is an unspoken truth underlying much of the self-care conversation - self-care becomes harmful when it’s used to endure an unhealthy amount of labour, stress, or emotional weight.
Self-care is often praised as the solution to burnout, but what if it’s part of the problem? This article examines how self-care can become a way to survive unfair workloads, emotional labour, and imbalance, instead of addressing the systems and relationships that cause exhaustion in the first pla...