11/20/2025
๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐๐ค ๐๐๐ซ๐ค๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ข๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐๐, ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ข๐ โ๐๐จ.โ
Itโs a regular prescription for most brain surgery patients. But not for Parker, who injected opioids for over four years and was less than a year into his addiction recovery.
โMy surgeon told me heโs been sawing brains for 30 plus years and has never seen anyone able to refuse pain meds post-surgery, and that this was a valid reason to take them. It was up to me to choose.โ
Parker remembers the first time he chose to inject drugs; it was the end of his 17-year military career and after his second and last frontline tour in Kandahar, Afghanistan.
โI tried it, I couldn't stop, and within a year, everything was a disaster.โ
Taking pain meds after surgery was different, yes, but somehow the risk felt similar.
Parker says the support and advice addiction specialist Dr. Adam Newman gave him over several years is why he was able to recover from surgery sober.
โDoc Newman has always gone out of his way to assure and support me, and that helped me go through a painful recovery with no drugs. He gave me the confidence I didnโt think I had to see it through and the desire not to let him down.
โI was able to stay sober and refuse the two weeks of free designer pharmaceuticals they were gonna give me.
โSo now, I take all the credit when he's not around, and I carry that clean surgery recovery like a badge of honour. It is an accomplishment that I am most proud of today, and he got me here.โ
Dr. Newman says Parkerโs clean surgery is highly unusual and that pain management after surgery for people recovering from addiction should be tailored to the individual.
โThe need for individualized and specialized hospital care is precisely why the Substance Treatment And Rehabilitation Team (START) was created, and I would say Rick is one of the spiritual founders of the team,โ he adds.
๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ๐ซถ
The two first met by chance in 2016 (three years before START began) when Parker was being wheeled out of Kingston Health Sciences Centreโs (KHSC) Emergency Department just as Dr. Newman was starting his shift. A couple of days later, when Parker was in a hospital unit recovering from a blood infection related to injection drug use, Dr. Newman was at his bedside.
โWe talked for a while. He told me that things don't have to stay like this. He said that when I was ready to make some changes, he would be happy to talk about some options and some support groups like Narcotics Anonymous. He gave me his info and told me how I could get in touch with him if I chose to.
โI was admitted four or five more times after that for the next two years for various infections, psych-wing visits and a surprise heart surgery.
โHe came and saw me each of those times while I was in the hospital to check in and to talk and to let me know his offer still stood if I was ready.
โDoc Newman saw me again when I was leaving the hospital after my brain surgery. By then, I was seven months sober after the seventh and final time in a residential rehabilitation treatment centre.
โI would have been dead long ago if it weren't for him and his care, understanding, concern, dedication and expertise.
โI'd take a bullet without hesitation for that man, if it ever came down to it. I feel he went above and beyond to help me, and I am still his patient seven years later. I am currently tapering off my monthly sublocade shots with his guidance and management.
โI follow every bit of direction and advice he gives me like it were gospel.
โAfter youโve lived with addiction for a while, itโs really hard to imagine yourself sober and functioning at all; your thoughts are so polluted and self-defeating.
โI didn't expect to be where I am now in my recovery, especially while I was still using drugs. Itโs impressive what someone can do in tough times. With some help and the right support, itโs not as hard as you think.
โI hope it is somewhat reassuring for someone reading this to see someone like me on the other side of what they might be going through.โ