10/09/2025
"I’ve tried everything, and nothing sticks.”
This is one of the most common things I hear—and it’s also deeply misunderstood.
Most people think they just need more motivation or discipline.
But research in psychology and behavioural science tells us a different story.
The real issue? Most health plans rely on willpower and unrealistic overhauls.
What works better? Habit stacking and using consistent environmental cues.
A study by Lally et al. (2010) found that new habits take, on average, 66 days to become automatic—and that repetition in the same context is the key to habit formation.
(Source: Lally et al., European Journal of Social Psychology)
Wood & Neal (2016) highlight that habits are formed when behaviours are repeated in stable, predictable contexts. It’s not about trying harder—it’s about linking new actions to old cues.
(Source: Wood & Neal, Annual Review of Psychology)
Instead of thinking:
“I need to change everything.”
Try:
“Where can I start small and anchor a change to something I already do?”
For example:
→ After I pour my morning coffee, I take my supplements.
→ After I walk in the door after work, I prep a protein-rich snack.
→ After I brush my teeth, I do 5 squats.
These tiny moves compound over time. With support, they stick.
References:
Lally, P., van Jaarsveld, C. H. M., Potts, H. W. W., & Wardle, J. (2010).How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world.European Journal of Social Psychology, 40(6), 998–1009.
Wood, W., & Neal, D. T. (2016). Healthy habits: The connection between repetitive behavior and health. Annual Review of Psychology, 67, 19–39.