Herds of Wisdom

Herds of Wisdom Equine Guided Coaching, Psychotherapy and Enrichment Programs. Our specialized programs help people of all ages grow, heal and transform their lives.

Equine Assisted Psychotherapy and Enrichment Programs motivate participants through guided ground activities with horses to encourage self exploration, problem solving, team building, conflict resolution and connection. Equine interactive learning offers a fun, engaging and innovative environment which promotes creativity, intuition, stress reduction, emotional balance and rejuvenation of mind, body and spirit.

makes sense. Trauma in any form is not kind to the brain.
08/27/2025

makes sense. Trauma in any form is not kind to the brain.

đź§  Study shows children exposed to family conflict have brain changes similar to combat veterans.

It literally rewires the child's fear system the same way war does to soldiers.

Children exposed to family violence display the same brain activity patterns as soldiers who’ve experienced combat, according to groundbreaking research from University College London and the Anna Freud Centre.

In the first study of its kind using functional MRI scans, scientists found that maltreated children showed heightened activity in the amygdala and anterior insula—regions linked to detecting threats—when shown angry faces.

These same brain regions light up in combat veterans, suggesting that repeated exposure to violence, even in the home, may rewire the brain’s emotional systems for hyper-vigilance.

While this adaptation may help children detect danger in the short term, it also activates brain circuits associated with anxiety disorders, increasing the risk of long-term mental health issues. Notably, the children studied were not currently diagnosed with any psychiatric conditions, underscoring that brain changes can occur beneath the surface. Researchers hope the findings will prompt earlier interventions and spark the development of treatments that help reverse these effects—or better yet, prevent them. As Professor Peter Fonagy noted, the study should energize efforts to protect children from violence and its lasting imprint on the brain.

Source: McCrory, E., et al. (2011). Maltreated children show same pattern of brain activity as combat soldiers. Current Biology.

having so much fun teaching my little nephews all about horses. Just love seeing them light up as they gain confidence r...
10/23/2024

having so much fun teaching my little nephews all about horses. Just love seeing them light up as they gain confidence riding.

this. People make things far more complicated than they have to.
02/11/2024

this. People make things far more complicated than they have to.

I wish a lot more horse people would come watch wild horses be worked for the first time.

I think one of the reasons I find forceful or fear based training so abhorrent is because I know how incredibly intelligent horses can be, how little force it takes them to do a job willingly. That these prey animals, who we have bred to work with us and selected for traits such as trainability for thousands of years, really don't need or deserve to be terrorised. Nor do I think it produces the best results.

It will never cease to amaze and humble me to work with a wild horses and have it actively understand and engage with you from the very first minutes. So many horses I work with will grasp the fundamentals of a completely new language from us in a completely new environment within the very first moments. How many people are capable of learning that quickly?

I think anyone who has watched a horse learn that way has their concept of what horses are capable of shaped and changed profoundly. Some of why I created an online course was to be able to show this for a wider audience as I truly think it helps people understand their own horses at home even better.

People say horses are fight or flight animals, truthfully though I think the vast majority of horses are flight. Given the chance they want to avoid confrontation, they don't want conflict. Which is I think is what makes over the top use of force harder to understand and to me points to a complete lack of awareness or understanding of horse behaviour.

This is not to say you let the horse do whatever it wants, I think for me it is having clarity in your work that creates a willing partner. When you make all your movements, the way you give aids, your timing and how you ask a horse to do something clear, it tells the horse how much you care. It shows your horse you're aware of who it is and by default they become more of aware you and want to work with you. I will always believe and be humbled by the fact horses are all to willing to work with us sometimes far more than some people deserve. For this we owe them fair training with understanding and kindness in return.

Photo: The Black, Hammond Images

this. it also applies to humans, especially kids
11/27/2023

this. it also applies to humans, especially kids

The words we choose make a difference.

No matter what the situation, using positive language will create a more positive situation.

Whether it's self talk, or giving feedback to co-workers, or talking to your family members, the advice is always to frame things using positive language.

Working with horses is no different.

It's easy to let our frustration leak into the words we use, whether out loud or in our head. The mare that runs past you out the gate is a "stupid cow", the horse who spooks at the same corner every time is a "moron", and the yearling that forgets how to lead is a "brat".

And it's easy to think it doesn't matter. After all, the horse doesn't understand your language, and you've blown off some steam, what difference does it make?

The difference is in our own mind. When we label a horse, whether it's calling them stupid, or stubborn, or something more colourful, we've anthropomorphized them (that means, given them human characteristics), and implied to ourselves that they are "misbehaving" on purpose. This gives us mental permission to use punishment, as they should "know better".

The trouble is, that isn't true at all. Horses only respond the way they think they're supposed to, or the way they think they have to in order to survive.

So what if we change our language? Instead of assigning blame or labels, what if we asked questions? Why was the yearling easy to lead yesterday, but not today? What's changed? What is he reacting to? What can we change in our approach to set him up for success?

Changing our language removes emotional reactions, and every time I've ever regretted an action with one of my horses, it's because my emotions took control.
Next time things aren't going well, instead of calling names, stop. Ask why, and make a new plan for your next attempt. Approach horse training like a scientist doing an experiment: every result is just more data to analyze and help you make adjustments towards your next effort.

It isn't easy to change your language, as words become habits. But I know that making a concentrated effort to stop using labels and name-calling, even in my own head, makes me a better horse person.

Try it for a week. Think about the language you use around your horses, whether it's out loud or not. Find ways to make it more positive, and see what happens in your relationship with your horse. I'd love to hear what you discover!

Winning at life means....putting the effort in. There's just no way around it.
10/09/2023

Winning at life means....putting the effort in. There's just no way around it.

Hunger and Horsemanship

When I first was a working student, my teacher said to me, do your feeling outside (when you are with the horses) and your thinking and studying inside (in the evenings, when the work is done at the end of the day). Then go out the next day and be better.

If I hadn't felt a certain kind of hunger and desire, I don't think I would have lasted. The learning was harsh, physically and emotionally. So many highs and lows. But the desire was stronger.

I saw the same in my mentors. They were in the same boat, just on their level. They said the highs and lows get less over time, change shape, that the learning curve becomes a little shallower, but that the journey remains a journey, nevertheless. It still didn't seem effortless. They remained students. At their own level.

The learning curve is steep, especially in the beginning. Horsemanship is not easy.

I see this back in my own students, now. I also wonder: if I make the horsemanship feel more like a walk in the park, students get less discouraged. If I make it easier, the horsemanship becomes two-dimensional and what Tom Dorrance, I think, referred to as "surface work". A philosophy reduced to technique. Feel reduced to pressure and R-.

Superficiality is not my thing. Horses are not here to serve us. We are here to serve the horses.

The struggle is real. And it is ours to own. Everyone for herself.

But on other side of hunger and desire, lies gratification and satisfaction.

Hunger beats the fear of imperfection, discomfort and embarassment. It gets you to go out there and work at your horsemanship. And on yourself, at the same time.

So it is good advice. For everyone who feels that desire and hunger to be better with horses. Get out. Feel. Do. Go in. Study and think. Rinse, repeat. Don't be afraid of the lows. If it was easy anyone could do it.

WE ARE OFFERING RIDING LESSONS THIS SUMMER - Ages 7+August and SeptemberIn a supportive and relaxing environment, your c...
08/09/2023

WE ARE OFFERING RIDING LESSONS THIS SUMMER - Ages 7+
August and September

In a supportive and relaxing environment, your child will learn about horse psychology and experience the joy of connecting with horses.

We focus on the importance of safety, building trust, setting healthy boundaries (horses are BIG animals!) with a positive "can do" attitude while becoming a more confident, empowered rider.

4 session packages: Save $60!
private: $240 (reg. $75/ea)
semi-private: $200 (reg. $65/ea)
hours are mon-sat 4-7pm

Get in touch now - there's still time for your child to have fun with horses this summer!

Words of Wisdom from my amazing Equine Body worker.
10/03/2022

Words of Wisdom from my amazing Equine Body worker.

Walking - the single most beneficial gait for the horse.

If I had to choose only one thing I could do with my horses it would be taking them for a walk. This overly simple task is often forgotten as a supremely potent tool in the metaphorical kit.

A wild horse may walk between 100-150km on a given day. The equine body is designed for low impact, long distance movement, with short bursts of high intensity (think power) sprinkled in. Every single system in the body is dependent on the locomotion of walking.

If the horse does not get this natural movement, EVERY SINGLE DAY, the systems begin to breakdown. Of course it is difficult to replicate this level of mileage in domestic life but we must try to honor the physiology to the best of our ability.

Recovering from injury? Struggling with metabolic issues? Experiencing training pains? Transitioning to barefoot? Pesky hoof pathologies? Digestive inflammation? Boredom? Depression? - TAKE YOUR HORSE FOR A WALK!!

Of equal importance, refrain from loading up on expensive and tedious bandaid that only mask symptoms. Instead of lining the pockets of big brand companies, make a long term, high interest investment in your horse (which is also free!) and just get them out moving in nature.

📸 yesterday with Waco at the pond which was an 8km roundtrip. As he approaches his late 30s, these regular walks have become vital in promoting longevity and quality of life 💫

Horse Camp registrations are still open. Camps are filling up, join now while there is space available. July 4-8 ages 8+...
06/18/2022

Horse Camp registrations are still open. Camps are filling up, join now while there is space available.
July 4-8 ages 8+
July 18-21 ages 5-8
July 25-20 ages 8+
$25 off extended until June 21! 15% off for siblings.
Don't miss out on this fun, creative, enriching experience for your child!

Well, it's about time. Finally got a halter on this little one. Patience and lots of treats. look at that mop on her hea...
02/13/2022

Well, it's about time. Finally got a halter on this little one. Patience and lots of treats. look at that mop on her head! next up. working on getting her tangles out. Wish me luck.

Happy New Year! the Team here has been enjoying the snow this past holiday, although it was extremely cold, but it was f...
01/04/2022

Happy New Year! the Team here has been enjoying the snow this past holiday, although it was extremely cold, but it was far better than the flooding we experienced here at the barn back in November. We haven't quite recovered, but we are getting there! We had to cancel plans for holiday camps due to the floods and then the extreme weather. Hoping you all had a safe and happy holiday and the new year will bring opportunities to reconnect, enjoy good health and peace in your hearts!

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Equine Assisted Psychotherapy and Enrichment Programs. Motivates participants through guided ground activities with horses to encourage self exploration, problem solving, team building, conflict resolution and connection. Equine interactive learning offers a fun, engaging and innovative environment which promotes creativity, intuition, stress reduction, emotional balance and rejuvenation of mind, body and spirit.