08/22/2024
Being quiet about things that weigh on me has never been my strong suit. The tone in which this post is written might upset some people, and that's okay. I'm not here for validation or the need to be liked. I'm an advocate, will forever be, and this reminder is needed, and man, am I fired up!
Naturally, we get curious if we hear of a death or drive by an accident scene. While curiosity is okay, not everything is everyone's business, nor is all of it meant for social media. I am appalled at the number of times I've seen photos of vehicles smashed up and flipped over, or read the questions and comments following what "happened," yet most of it is presumed. Even if it is factual, it's in poor taste to gossip on platforms like Facebook about it. Gossip amongst your friends if you must. The loved ones of the people involved don't need to learn of an incident this way or see the presumptions and jokes that follow such a post. Some of you are using what could be the worst day of someone's life as entertainment. If you're asking what happened, and you're actually concerned it might be a loved one, call the rcmp so you gain valid information quickly. If you directly witness an incident, share the details with the first responders on scene. It needs to go no further than that until family has been notified. It's also irrelevant to mention you know the person. Is this for attention? Lastly, stop tagging family members in news clips and articles in stories of their tragedy, while you say you're sorry for their loss. Send them condolences another way. They don't need Facebook memories popping up like this every year. I assure you, they will remember, just as I assure you that if any of what has occurred is your business, someone will be sure to let you know.
In the meantime, if you're in need of entertainment, maybe go read a book to your child or grandchild, take up a hobby, and find some fulfillment in something. The members of our community deserve respect and could be treated with dignity when the worst happens.
Alecia 💕
