05/26/2026
It took me awhile, but once I felt it…there was no going back…
The shift from hesitation, second guessing….
checking in with the outside world to…..
My own embodied CONSCIOUS YES 🔥
Is a juicy liberating sensation!
Life changes, after that, in the ways you’ve been waiting for…
There is waiting. Then there is choosing.
I hope you have experiences of this already.
I hope that you are leaning into your Yesss!
Untaming and loving (loving & living) life from a place YES I can, YES I’m allowed, YES I’m worthy, YES, this is my choice…
Is the shift.
Growing up as a parentified child, a 16year codependent - rescuer victim (childhood pattern) relationship, navigating years of narcissism (before I knew what that was) most of my Yeses had to pass the outside gate keepers check point. Which had become so internalized (as is the agenda of the patriarchy) I often didn’t even ask - outside of myself. It was an internal dialogue of whether someone might get upset, judge me, challenge or belittle my decision, and so I chose no …before I could even fully entertain Yes - fully.
YKIYK
The kind of YES I’m talking about is not to prove a point, tinged with vindictiveness.
It is a full embodied bone deep knowing of truth.
My core steady and alive. My heart lighter and a bit fluttery. My belly dancing between butterflies of excitement and a bit of “oh sh*t”….. this is my truth!
My YES has wisdom and an edge. 🔥
It was time to shift from “No more of x”, to YES - this is MY path, truth, choice, need. And I don’t need to justify it to anyone.
I need to live by it. I need to live my YES.
After feeling that - everything changed.
Because then I took full responsibility for letting my wounding rule the roost.
My level of self awareness and conscious choice took a quantum leap.
I learned I could have compassion for the pain of my journey, get even more curious about how to integrate it and hold a whole new level of courage to transform myself and my life. And I have.
I keep saying YES, walking beyond the edge, finding out there’s even more magic I’m made of…then I claim it. If I want it 😍
YES, you can too. 🔥
