05/22/2021
Hi my name is Jessica Cianchino,
I am the Ambassador of Mental Health and the Executive Director for the Youth and Parents Association of Markham (YPAM) Mental Health.
Mental Health can be understood as a spectrum, so this means that everyone can relate to the conversation!
Self-awareness of your mental wellbeing is essential, so you are able to learn what self-care practices and coping mechanisms work best for you; as these methods can vary depending on the person.
For me personally, I realized that I needed to take care of my wellbeing when I started competing in pageants, more specifically, when I represented Canada on an international stage. It’s hard not to compare yourself to other people, especially with social media now being a big part in many of our lives. So for me it was so difficult not to compare myself to the gorgeous, smart, talented, women from all over the world.
But I had to change my perspective about pageantry and see it as almost a soul searching journey. You’re given a few months to try to be the best possible version of yourself mind, body and soul. And also to reflect on what you're genuinely passionate about and even better, be encouraged to actively become an agent of change within your own community. So in having a moment of self-reflection I was able to turn the narrative around, and not see myself as competing or comparing with other individuals, but at the end of the day I am only competing with myself.
We are all unique individuals, with unique stories to tell that cannot be compared to anyway else.
For me, spending quality time with my dog has helped ground me and make me feel at peace. There are so many mental health benefits to taking care of another life, whether it be a pet or your plants. The very act of being responsible for a living thing increases our sense of purpose.
So for anyone out there that is struggling with their mental wellbeing, I would recommend learning what self-care practices work best specifically for you. There’s so much growing in the journey, despite it being very difficult. Don’t rush the process, and be kinder to yourselves 💛💛💛
And remember, YOU ARE NOT ALONE🤗