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01/09/2026

01/08/2026

View Cecile Marie Comeau's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

01/05/2026

Grief Takes Time
The Myth versus Reality

One of the biggest myths concerning grief recovery is the expression “Grief Just Takes Time’. In fact, time will do nothing for someone’s pain but pass. Have you ever met someone grieving a loss which occurred many, many years prior, patiently waiting for some type of recovery? It’s like waiting for a miracle, it’s just not going to happen.

Having said that, in reality grief does take time but the key ingredient in recovery is to make use of that time. It’s about taking action and one can do that by actively participating in one’s grief. Mourning the loss immediately and not suppressing feelings is a much better approach than watching time pass and expecting a positive result.

One method of actively participating in one’s grief involves four steps. The first is accepting the reality of the loss and confronting one’s memories of the deceased, both good and bad. An inner dialogue is created and events surrounding the death are replayed including feelings felt at the funeral and the weeks and months which follow. This allows a new reality to sink in.

Next, sharing thoughts and expressing feelings with others is needed and seeking out those who are supportive and non-judgemental is recommended. Having others participate and support in this process is vital in the healing process.

The following step is adjusting to a new environment where the deceased is missing. This is done by taking on a new identity as one faces the challenges of new roles without that person present in one’s life.

Lastly a shift in thinking is needed. Self-permission needs to be given to convert the relationship with the person who died from one of presence to one of memory. A mindset of reminiscing about the past, engaging in the present and embracing the future with a renewed sense of hope needs to be developed.

It’s important to remember that the grief journey is not linear. There may be temporary setbacks in progress through this unique life altering experience. Everyone will complete this task in their own time which often depends on the depth of the relationship and the circumstances surrounding the loss.

Remember, grief is a process, recovery is a choice.
-Tom Easthope, Bereavement Counselor and Author

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01/02/2026

View Wayne Clement Comeau's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

01/01/2026

Happy New Years!

Our management and staff at Meteghan Funeral Home wish you good health, happiness and success with all your endeavors in 2026.

“Let this coming year be better than all the others. Vow to do some of the things you have always wanted to do but could not find the time. Call up a forgotten friend. Drop an old grudge, and replace it with some pleasant memories. Vow not to make a promise you do not think you can keep. Walk tall, and smile more.”
– Ann Landers

12/30/2025

View Louise Comeau's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

12/30/2025

View Rose Marie Gaudet's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

12/25/2025

Season’s Greetings, Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas!

From all of us at Meteghan Funeral Home, we wish you an enjoyable holiday season shared with family and friends. As we spend time with our special people, let us take a moment to remember those who are no longer with us and how they touched our lives.

“When we recall Christmas past, we usually find that the simplest things - not the great occasions - give off the greatest glow of happiness.”
― Bob Hope

12/24/2025

View Timothy George Muzzerall's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

12/23/2025

View Gilles Vincent Comeau's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

12/22/2025

View Gilles Michel Vallée's obituary, contribute to their memorial, see their funeral service details, and more.

12/22/2025

Margaret Hubl used her quilts to communicate her love for her family, and her family used them at her funeral to honor her memory.