The Special Abilities

The Special Abilities Board-Certified Behavior Analyst | Listed in OAP Provider List | Empowering families through ABA therapy.

Collaboratively working with families to create acceptance, appreciation, and awareness for individuals with developmental needs, and behavioral health concerns while supporting them to reach their fullest potential. Providing behavior analytic services through telehealth and in-person sessions based on competent, function-based, and empirically proven principles of Applied Behavior Analysis.

03/22/2026

Hyperlexia can feel confusing for many parents — especially when a child reads early but struggles to communicate.

Some children show strong decoding skills (reading words) but may find it harder to understand meaning or engage in conversations. This difference is more common in children with autism and is important to recognize early.

You might notice:
• Early interest in letters, numbers, or books
• Reading words much earlier than expected
• Strong memory for written information
• Difficulty understanding what they read
• Challenges with conversation or answering questions

Early identification can help guide the right support. Approaches like structured teaching and Applied Behavior Analysis can help build communication and comprehension skills alongside reading abilities.

Every child develops differently — and with the right support, progress is possible.





Shouting may feel like a quick reaction in stressful moments—but for many autistic children, it can be overwhelming rath...
03/19/2026

Shouting may feel like a quick reaction in stressful moments—but for many autistic children, it can be overwhelming rather than helpful.

Raised voices can feel intense, unpredictable, and hard to process. Instead of understanding what to do, a child may feel scared, confused, or more stressed.

Over time, frequent yelling can make it harder for children to regulate emotions and learn expected behaviors.

What helps instead:
• Calm, clear instructions
• Predictable routines and expectations
• Teaching skills in a structured and supportive way

Small changes in how we communicate can make a big difference in how children feel, respond, and learn.





Mealtimes can be stressful for many families raising autistic children.What often looks like “picky eating” is usually c...
03/15/2026

Mealtimes can be stressful for many families raising autistic children.

What often looks like “picky eating” is usually connected to sensory sensitivities, routine preferences, and difficulty with new foods. A food’s texture, smell, temperature, or even foods touching each other on the plate can feel overwhelming.

Children may prefer only a few specific foods, foods with similar textures, or may reject entire food groups. These challenges are not about being stubborn — they reflect how a child experiences food.

Parents can support feeding skills with small steps:
• Introduce new foods slowly
• Pair new foods with familiar favorites
• Allow children to explore food without pressure
• Keep mealtime routines consistent

With patience, structured support, and gradual exposure, many children can expand the foods they feel comfortable eating.

Progress often happens in small steps — and every step matters.

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Haircuts can be a big challenge for many autistic children — and it’s not about being “difficult.”The buzzing sound of c...
03/12/2026

Haircuts can be a big challenge for many autistic children — and it’s not about being “difficult.”

The buzzing sound of clippers, hair touching the skin, bright salon lights, and unfamiliar environments can quickly become overwhelming for children with sensory sensitivities.

Haircuts also involve transitions and changes in routine. Sitting still, being touched by someone new, and not knowing exactly what will happen can create anxiety.

Some children may not be able to explain what feels uncomfortable. Instead, they might pull away, cry, or try to leave the chair — which is often their way of communicating distress.

Small strategies can make the experience easier:
• Prepare your child by showing pictures or videos of haircuts
• Practice touching the hair or head at home
• Bring familiar comfort items
• Choose quieter times at the salon
• Allow breaks if needed

With patience and gradual exposure, many children become more comfortable over time. Every child progresses at their own pace.





Play is one of the most natural ways children learn to connect with others.For many autistic children, social interactio...
03/11/2026

Play is one of the most natural ways children learn to connect with others.

For many autistic children, social interaction can feel confusing or overwhelming. Understanding social cues, starting interactions, or sharing attention during activities may take extra practice.

Play creates a low-pressure space where these skills can grow naturally.

Parents can support social learning during everyday play by:
• Following their child’s interests
• Taking turns during activities
• Pausing and giving the child time to respond
• Celebrating small attempts at interaction

Small moments matter — a look, a shared toy, or copying an action can all be steps toward stronger communication and connection.

When parents are involved in play, children often build social communication, engagement, and language skills in meaningful ways.





Therapy does not always have to happen in a clinic. For many families, in-home therapy allows children to learn in the p...
03/09/2026

Therapy does not always have to happen in a clinic.
 
For many families, in-home therapy allows children to learn in the place where their daily routines actually happen.
 
When therapy takes place at home, skills can be practiced during real moments — mealtime, play, transitions, and family routines. This often helps children apply what they learn more naturally in everyday life.
 
Some families choose home-based support because:
• Children may feel more comfortable in familiar surroundings
• Skills can be practiced in real-life situations
• Parents can observe sessions and learn strategies directly
• Therapists can address challenges that appear during daily routines
• Goals can be tailored to the child’s natural environment
 
Learning where life happens can make progress more meaningful and practical for families.
 




Autism moms often carry many roles every single day. They advocate in meetings, schedule therapies and appointments, tea...
03/08/2026

Autism moms often carry many roles every single day.
 
They advocate in meetings, schedule therapies and appointments, teach new skills at home, and constantly research ways to support their child. They learn to notice behavior patterns, build routines that create predictability, and provide emotional support during difficult moments.
 
They also navigate medical systems, communicate with professionals, and celebrate every small step forward.
 
Behind every progress milestone is often a parent doing far more than people realize.
 
If you are an autism mom doing all of this and more — your effort matters, even on the hardest days.
 




Some autistic children refuse to leave the house — but it is often not about “refusal.” For many children, going outside...
03/07/2026

Some autistic children refuse to leave the house — but it is often not about “refusal.”
 
For many children, going outside can feel overwhelming because of sensory overload, anxiety about unfamiliar places, or difficulty with transitions.
 
Loud sounds, bright lights, crowds, and strong smells can quickly become too much.
Unpredictable situations or sudden changes in routine can also create stress.
 
What looks like stubborn behavior may actually be a child communicating that something feels unsafe or overwhelming.
 
Small strategies can help:
• Prepare your child in advance
• Use visual schedules
• Practice short outings first
• Allow sensory supports like headphones
• Keep routines as predictable as possible
 
With the right supports, children can gradually build confidence and comfort with transitions.
 




If you are raising an autistic child in Canada, it can be hard to know where to start when looking for support. There ar...
03/06/2026

If you are raising an autistic child in Canada, it can be hard to know where to start when looking for support.
 
There are several programs that may help families access funding, services, and community resources.
 
At the federal level, some families may qualify for supports such as:
• Disability Tax Credit (DTC)
• Registered Disability Savings Plan (RDSP)
• Canada Child Disability Benefit (CCDB)
 
In Ontario, families may also access services through programs like:
• Ontario Autism Program (OAP) via AccessOAP
• Autism Ontario programs and community supports
 
Across Canada, organizations like Autism Canada and AIDE Canada provide guides, toolkits, and directories to help families find services in their area.
 
Support may also include therapies and services such as ABA, speech therapy, occupational therapy, parent training, respite care, social skills programs, and transition supports.
 
Because funding models and eligibility rules vary by province, it can feel confusing at first — but support does exist.
 
If you are unsure where to begin, comment “resources” and we will send you a simple parent guide to autism supports in Canada.
 




Bedtime shouldn’t feel like a nightly battle. Up to 40–80% of children with autism experience sleep difficulties — from ...
03/02/2026

Bedtime shouldn’t feel like a nightly battle.
 
Up to 40–80% of children with autism experience sleep difficulties — from trouble falling asleep to frequent waking and early mornings.
 
What looks like “stalling” or “refusing bed” is often:
• Sensory sensitivity
• Anxiety or racing thoughts
• Difficulty with transitions
• Differences in melatonin regulation
 
Sleep struggles are not defiance. They are often regulation challenges.
 
Small, consistent changes can help:
✔ Predictable bedtime routine
✔ Visual schedules
✔ Reduced screen time before bed
✔ Adjusting lighting and noise
 
If sleep issues are affecting learning, behavior, or daily functioning, it may be time to seek support.
 
Better sleep supports attention, emotional regulation, and overall well-being — for your child and your whole family.
 
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
 

When an autistic child refuses to go to school, it is rarely about “bad behavior.” School refusal is often a sign of anx...
03/01/2026

When an autistic child refuses to go to school, it is rarely about “bad behavior.”
 
School refusal is often a sign of anxiety, sensory overload, social stress, or feeling overwhelmed. What looks like defiance can actually be a nervous system in distress.
 
Stomach aches.
Meltdowns before the bus.
Shutting down on school mornings.
 
These are often stress responses — not manipulation.
 
Instead of asking, “How do I make them go?”
Try asking, “What is making school feel unsafe or too hard?”
 
With the right supports, accommodations, and coping skills, school can feel manageable again.
 
You are not alone in this. 💛
 

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