10/15/2025
Let’s set the record straight: expressing your feelings isn’t the same as trauma dumping. 💭
Yes, trauma dumping does exist, it happens when someone shares intense or graphic experiences without the other person’s consent, context, or awareness of their emotional capacity. It tends to feel one-sided, overwhelming, and can leave the listener feeling responsible for “fixing” things.
Here’s what trauma dumping isn’t:
🙅♀️ Reaching out to a friend to say you’re anxious or having a hard time
🙅♀️ Venting about a rough day at work
🙅♀️ Sharing insights from therapy or healing work
🙅♀️ Being honest about your mental health journey
Too many of us have become afraid of being “too much,” and in that fear, we silence ourselves, cutting off the very connection and support we crave as humans. Your feelings are valid. Your story deserves space.
And if you need a place where your story can be safely held, reach out.