06/26/2025
What if being a “good enough mother” is exactly what your child needs? 💛
In her latest blog post, therapist Lisa explores the unrealistic expectations placed on modern mothers and offers a compassionate, grounded alternative. 🌿
In the 1950s, British pediatrician and psychoanalyst first defined the term “good enough mother” as being sufficiently attuned and responsive to her child’s needs - not perfectly, but reliably.
✔️ She allows her child to experience manageable frustration & reasonable risk.
✔️ She is caring, while also making space for growth, mistakes & resilience.
✔️ She repairs ruptures & acknowledges her missteps.
The result? Both children and mothers with less anxiety, more resilience, and improved emotional flexibility. 🧠✨
“The strength of a ‘good enough’ mother lies in her acceptance of imperfection and vulnerability, demonstrating to her children that meaningful love and connection arise not from flawlessness, but from sincerity and emotional presence.” - Lisa Ernst.
📖 Read Lisa’s full blog post to learn more about embracing imperfection as a mother:
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