Stephanie Moffit, Registered Social Worker, Psychotherapist

02/25/2026

Arguments fall apart because both nervous systems get activated at the same time.

When that happens:
Tone sharpens
Listening drops
Defensiveness rises
The goal goes from understanding to winning.

You don't need to prepare the perfect response to communicate effectively. You need to know how to regulate and reset.

Slowing the conversation down often changes the outcome, more than changing the content.

If this pattern sounds familiar, couples counselling can provide structured, practical support.

Got questions? Email us at info@stephaniemoffit.com!
We can't wait to sit with you.

02/23/2026

You begin by arguing about who takes out the garbage, walks the dog, does the dishes...

Before you know it, you're arguing about how the conversation FEELS.

When we feel dismissed, criticized, or not taken seriously, the nervous system shifts into protection mode.

Its automatic, not strategic.

If you're stuck in the same loop, it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is failing. It can simply mean that the pattern hasn't been identified yet.

When couples learn to recognize the pattern, they gain more control over it. That's where change starts!

Monica Harwood, MSW RSW would be honoured to walk alongside you as you and your partner discover patterns, and find another path.

Info@stephaniemoffit.com
519-933-2407

02/20/2026

Even people in healthy relationships have conflict. Conflict, by itself, isn’t the problem.

What tends to create real damage is disconnection and lack of repair.

Disconnection can look like:
• Repeating the same argument with no resolution
• Avoiding certain topics entirely
• Emotional shutdown
• Feeling indifferent instead of upset

What helps interrupt that pattern is repair.

Repair means intentionally addressing the tension after a conflict instead of ignoring it.

It might sound like:
• “That didn’t go well. Can we try again?”
• “I got defensive.”
• A hug. A soft tone. Eye contact. A well-timed joke.

Repair isn’t dramatic or overly emotional. It’s practical. It resets the conversation and reduces long-term resentment.

Strong relationships aren’t conflict-free, they’re able to reset after conflict.

Not sure where to start? Give us a call or book a free consultation today.
519-633-2407
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02/20/2026

We’re so excited to welcome our newest psychotherapist, Monica Harwood, MSW RSW! 💛

With over 10 years of experience in healthcare and palliative care, along with several years in private practice, Monica brings warmth, compassion, and deep clinical knowledge to her work. Her approach is relaxed, non-judgmental, and strength-based.

She supports individuals and couples navigating anxiety, depression, mood disorders, autism and intellectual/developmental disabilities, grief and anticipatory grief, terminal illness, caregiver stress (including Alzheimer’s and dementia care), self-esteem, communication challenges, boundaries, conflict, and relationship concerns.

Her work integrates CBT, DBT, the Gottman Method, Emotion-Focused Therapy, mindfulness, and the Gentle Persuasive Approach (GPA) in dementia care.

If you’re looking for support with anxiety, couples counselling, grief therapy, caregiver support, or relationship growth, she would be honoured to walk alongside you.

✨ Now accepting new clients.

info@stephaniemoffit.com
519-668-2407
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02/18/2026

Most couples don’t come to therapy because they argue. They come because they feel stuck.

Underneath repetitive conflict is usually a deeper question:
“Do I matter to you?”

When both partners feel emotionally safe, arguments shift from battles to conversations.

Healthy relationships aren’t conflict-free. They’re repair-capable.

If you feel stuck in the same cycle, you’re not alone. The good news is that patterns can change.

Monica Harwood, MSW RSW is our couples therapist using the Gottman Method, a structured, research-based couples therapy approach that strengthens friendship, improves conflict management, and builds shared meaning to enhance relationship stability.

Call or book online for a free consultation with Monica!
519-933-2407
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02/17/2026

Winter can feel heavy. The darker days, colder mornings, and endless grey skies can really take a toll.

A couple weekends ago, Alisha (our #1 admin) and I got outside and visited the beautiful (frozen) Lake Nipissing and it honestly lifted our spirits. Fresh air, open space, and some beautiful sunrises and sunsets.

When you can:
✨ Get outside for even 10–20 minutes of daylight. Bundle up!
✨ Move your body (walks, stretching, skating, anything works)
✨ Reach out and stay connected

I know we've had our fair share of days where the air hurts your face, freezes your nose, and makes your eyes water. On these days, you might do more reading, baking, journaling, puzzles, creative projects, or at-home workouts. Winter can still be a season of growth, just a softer one.

The good news? About 31 days until spring. 🌷
We’re almost there!

01/08/2026

Your brain is always adapting.
Sometimes it just needs better information. 🧠✨

NeurOptimal® is a gentle, non-invasive form of neurofeedback that gives the brain real-time feedback about its own activity, allowing it to naturally self-regulate and become more resilient over time.

People explore NeurOptimal® for many reasons: stress, anxiety, sleep, focus, emotional balance, or simply wanting to feel more like themselves again. There’s no forcing, no preset goals, and nothing you have to “do.” You relax, listen to music, and let your brain do what it does best — learn.

If you’re feeling curious, you’re welcome to reach out.

01/01/2026

✨ Now Offering NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback ✨

We’re excited to share that NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback is now available at our clinic as part of our mental health services.

NeurOptimal® is a non-invasive, drug-free neurofeedback system that supports the brain’s natural ability to self-regulate. Many people use it alongside psychotherapy to support overall well-being, stress management, emotional balance, and mental clarity.

💡 Good news about coverage:
NeurOptimal® sessions are covered by most extended health benefit plans, as the service is billed under the services of a Registered Social Worker (RSW).

Whether you’re already engaged in therapy or exploring additional supports for your mental wellness, NeurOptimal® can be a powerful complementary option.

📩 To learn more or book a session, contact us today. Your brain does amazing things—sometimes it just needs the right feedback.

Email: info@stephaniemoffit.com
Phone: 519-933-2407

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12/16/2025

We’re excited to share some great updates! 😊

Cheryl has increased her availability for the New Year, with more appointment hours to better support children and families. We’re also thrilled to announce that she will also be offering services in Stratford at 169 Huron Street.

As if that wasn't exciting enough, she is also offering NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, a non-invasive approach to support emotional regulation, focus, and overall well-being for children and adults.

Cheryl will be available in Mitchell on Mondays, Tuesdays & Fridays, and available in Stratford on Thursdays starting January 2026.

For more information or to book an appointment, please get in touch. We can't wait to sit with you. 💙

519-933-2407
info@stephaniemoffit.com

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10/17/2025

It's such a privilege to be able to connect with like-minded professionals, and start something new! We are so happy to be able to provide services in both Mitchell and Stratford alongside a team of people with such diverse offerings. Healing starts here! 🩵

We’re Open! Meet Your Care Team
We’re so excited to introduce you to Institute for Trauma & Stress Recovery, your new destination for compassionate, client-centered care serving Huron & Perth County!
Our team of expert clinicians brings years of experience, diverse backgrounds, and a shared passion for helping you thrive. We’ve built a practice focused on helping people recover from trauma with compassion, skill, and trust. We believe healing is possible for everyone, and we’re committed to supporting a healthier, more resilient community—one person at a time.
Meet Our Clinicians:
Ashley Neveu - RP
Stephanie Moffit - RSW
Christine McCarthy - RP (Qualifying)
Cheryl Otto - RSSW
Aaron Halliday - RP (Qualifying)
Shelley Bray - RP (Qualifying)

Each of our clinicians is committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and supportive space where healing and growth happen—on your terms.
📍Now accepting new clients | 🕒 Flexible appointments | 💻 https://traumarecoveryinstitute.ca/
We can't wait to meet you and be part of your journey!

09/25/2025

✨ Back-to-School Can Be Tough – We’re Here to Help ✨

Back-to-school not going quite as expected? The start of a new school year brings excitement, but it can also be a stressful time. Adjusting to new routines, teachers, classmates, and academic demands can feel overwhelming—sometimes showing up as worries, changes in mood, difficulty sleeping, or even physical complaints like stomachaches.

When Cheryl isn't at schools herself, she provides a safe, compassionate space where kids can express their feelings, learn coping skills, and build confidence as they face school-related challenges.

If your child is:
✅ Struggling with separation anxiety or school refusal
✅ Feeling nervous or sad about the transition back to school
✅ Having trouble making or keeping friends
✅ Experiencing changes in mood, sleep, or behavior

-- we can help!

💬 Reach out today to schedule a consultation. Together, we can help your child feel more supported, resilient, and ready to thrive this school year.

📞 519-933-2407
📧 info@stephaniemoffit.com
🌐 stephaniemoffit.com

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