04/11/2024
The word routine can be heard by some as boring, repetitive, or lack of spontaneity.
The reality is children thrive with a routine (and adults too!). A routine allows a child to know what to expect, how to react, what skills to use and this in turn helps a child develop a sense of calm, wellbeing and security.
We see routines as a sequence of activities that can be interchangeable and that allows for creativity and freedom. For example, a weekend routine could mean wake up, play, have breakfast, play, have lunch, nap, play, snack, play, followed by bath and sleep. It can also mean that each Friday, there is a special family night, or on weekends there are family visits. That sequence helps a child recognize what is expected, what is to follow and which skills to use from their repertoire. A routine is not fixed in time, is not meant to be restricting and is not meant to have fixed times for each activity.
If you find your child is struggling to follow your daily activities and plans, and find that no two days are the same - think about what you can:
- anchor in to have as an entity - for example, can bedtime or playtime always be preceded by a known activity?
- systemize to give your child a sense of knowledge of what to expect - for example, share the plan of the week or day with your child and keep the anchors in for the sequence to expect.
Are you struggling with your child's daily routine? Does your child have difficulty transitioning between activities? Does your child avoid certain tasks and activities in their day? We can help!
Reach out to one of our OTs for personalized support!