07/27/2023
❌The Narcissist as a parent, part 1:
⛔One of the biggest failures of expectation, is to think that a narcissist would be a good parent one day; It's like expecting it to snow during midsummer in the great Sahara.
⛔A narcissist, who is free from empathy, is so self absorbed and centred that the only thing that matters to them if the mistake happens and they become a parent, is that their ego and social image are well-served and enhanced with this offspring, otherwise; it doesn't budge a single nerve in their brains.
⛔The pattern shows that narcissists cannot provide unconditional, fair and even love to all of their children. In fact, if they haven't done it earlier, they will do it later,that they will "select" a child to be the golden one, the rest to be neglected, or even worse; to be abused if that child was the scapegoat!
⛔The chosen child will be groomed, manipulated, brainwashed and programmed to serve the goals of the "parent" and fulfil their unachieved targets and purposes. This child will become a wreckage machine without a control system or breaks; as they will become a reflection and an extension to the character of the narcissist parent. The later wouldn't hesitate to risk that child's safety and future to check their very own milestones off the list.
⛔The result is of course catastrophic in terms of the golden child's personality, as they might become a narcissist just like their grooming parent,or even worse; wake up to the reality that they were never loved and supported for being themselves, but rather used and exploited to serve twisted goals of an unbalanced person, called "parent"!
🚩Before getting married and bringing a child to this life, look out for the red flags that the narcissist shows, and avoid falling into the clutches of that predator and losing the lives of you and your children.
Stay safe and strong ✌️💪
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