01/10/2023
One of my clients used our 20 minute rule today. I was proud of him.
The idea is, instead of punishing yourself through 45 or 60 minutes of something you and your body might not be ready for, commit to starting and persisting for a good chunk, finishing is pure bonus.
Sometimes we warm up, find the groove and get into that thing (in this case exercise). Other times we stay feeling stiff, achey, or we start to feel drained, not invigorated. And that's OK.
The central idea is that starting is more valuable than a perfect finish. Take roughly 1/3 of the expected time before you throw in the towel, that's it.
For example, I love little 8 min sprint/interval sessions in my front yard/street, so I go get loose, then hit the timer and aim for 2.5 minutes of work before I decide to stop or keep going.
Maybe your microdoses of exercise are 15 minutes- so set your bar at 5 minutes. You get the idea by now.
I will always remember the Mark Messier Baked Lays commercial from my youth, the idea was "I betcha can't have just one..."
In my 15 years+ of experiences as a coach, I can tell you that well over 90% of the time if you start, you'll keep going.
Another sneaky victory with this philosophy is that you will learn more about your relationship with your mind and body, a meta-skill to be sure. Expect to notice things about challenging situations. Expect to lean into things differently or, notice yourself feel and say a firm no sooner - both are great skills and assets you really start to develop when you intentionally start things.
My final thought on things is deciding if you like to explore or like to be led. It's way easier to implement this rule if you are getting into the activity with the type of mindset and plan you thrive in.
In other words, get personalized programs made for you if you like that level of detail, or get themes to riff on if you want more flexibility in your life and routines.
Go start something... and stick with it for long enough to really feel if its over, or just getting interesting!